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writes: Dear Cupid,Please help me with my boyfriend who i've been with 11 months almost a whole year in 11 days. We have never gotten into a serious fight. he used to tell me he loves me all the time, even after our small break up that lasted only 10 minutes which was in december, but now what i need help is knowing why he's not talking to me?....we ALWAYS text like litterally every day and night. he sometimes calls me just to make it fun, we usually see each other only like twice a week because of school but i wont be seeing him until 3/4 of june because he got grounded for something bigger but notice he doesnt go to the same school as me and he is one grade younger than me BUT he is the same age as me only about 1 month younger. weve known each other since we were 3. He has never not texted me back for this long. Recently this past thursday we have been talking great all night his last text was "meany for falling asleep" at 1:35AM...when i woke up of course like always i texted him back around 7am. but later that day i realized it was kinda stupid for me to send that text so early so i sent another one at 6:30pm since he never texted back,i told his friend if he could text him asking him what's up to see if something was wrong....3 days passed by i started getting worried until FINALLY monday he texted his friend back saying he got his phone taken away over the weekend, but he didnt text me back AT ALL. i waited but nothing so i texted him saying i wanted to urgently talk to him and he texted back saying "what" so i had a small convo but decided to end it since i didnt think he wanted to talk to me since he never texted back the day he got his phone back. the next day (tuesday)i texted him saying "WASSUP?"....he hasnt texted me back nor has he texted back any of the other people that i asked to text him....so im assuming he got his phone taken away, but ysterday because of desperation i went on facebook and sent him a msg saying that i got my phone taken away so i could only talk to him on facebook until i get it back but also asked "whatcha doing" like i always do but he STILL hasnt msged back....i know he logged on facebook because he updated his stat saying he got an A+ on a huge exam but still no reply.....whats going on between us? what should i do? how long should i wait? any advice??
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2011): Girl i have the same problems its terrible i know how you feel but maybe hes always gettin in trouble or bussy with other things like my bf and wen he duznt txt me i always think or wonder if hes mad or has second thoughts about us but he says he still loves me and all so im sorry for you hun lots of us are in the same position:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2011): Give it until after the grounding has been lifted. His phone has been taken away and it seems very likely that he has been banned from using the computer as well. His facebook log in might have occurred during a brief window of opprtunity when his parents weren't about.
Be patient and don't pressure him. He knowns you're anxious to hear from him, but there isn't much he can do about it right now.
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reader, spinnaker  +, writes (27 May 2011):
 You wait as long as you wish to really. I have fish that have greater attention spans than most people so keep that in mind when dealing with others especially over texting and facebook.
My advice is to give it a little time and text him again how he is doing. If no response don't sweat it and move on.
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reader, boredofit92  +, writes (27 May 2011):
Its so fustrating when you cant get in touch with your bf! If he doesnt bother to text you tonight surely you will see him in school? if not i would send him a message on fb so you can see if hes read it and say 'if you dont want to be with me just say' so that you can understand what hes thinking!
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