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writes: I need help ASAP! My boyfriend of 2 months and I had one of our disagreements and told me he needed a couple of days off to think and cool off. I didn't think he needed to think about anything, it wasn't like it was a MAJOR decision he had to think about! So I told him if he had to think about it, then something must be wrong. So I ended it, was I wrong in doing that? Reply to this Question
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reader, Happygoddess +, writes (31 August 2005):
You may have acted too quickly. You need to talk to him and see what his perspective is on the issue. What you may consider trivial he may consider important. Its all about balance.
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reader, pops +, writes (31 August 2005):
NO. 2 months is no time to invest in any relationship, and this will not be the last relationship that lasts this short amount of time, and shorter. If he has doubts about dating you, particularly over something you consider trivial, then you have the right to end it. And, You probably should end it. My God, if he's going to get upset over something little, what is he going to be like when something important creates a difference of opinion. Life is just too short to waste time on these guys. Move on.
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reader, miss.handy +, writes (31 August 2005):
I think that if it felt right then it is right. However, I also think that guys can't always get their head around being in the wrong and maybe he just needed a sulking day or two. But the best thing to do is move on. If the disagreement was bad enough to end the relationship then he obviously isn't for you.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (31 August 2005):
 No, i think you did the right thing. He just wanted your attention and you begging at his feet not to dump you. Lads get like that sometimes, you've just got to keep them on their toes and let them know who's in charge! If he's worth it, he'll come crawling back! I know this sounds harsh but trust me, it works! Good luck :)
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