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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i found love msgs from a girl in my boyfriends phone which he gave me to take for repair. i asked him about it he said that we would talk about it when i visit him (am currently away at school). i started going out with him in may 2008 and those msgs are for december 2007. i know his ex girl, and its not her who sent da texts. i told him that i would call her, then he said he wouldnt be pleased if i did, that and that i would just embarrass us. i told him i would not call her, but today i called her and she answered and i told her i had made a mistake on the number. please help i love my boyfriend so much. what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks anonymous, bt i think its just a natural thng that most pipo can do and i just have a strong feeling they might still be seeing each other nowanda he was insisting on us talkn instead of me calling her. but thanks 4yo advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2008): I think you should have waited until you saw him as he asked you. I'm not sure why you were looking through his texts, but I'm wondering if you have trust issues with him or just in general. The texts from before you were dating him are of no consequence to your relationship, and frankly, none of your business. I think you should have respected his wishes, but since you didn't, you may have to just confess what you've done. Try explaining to him why you felt insecure enough to do this and have a discussion.
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