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writes:Okay so I like this boy, and he's 19, and i'm 15. And we're friends, yeah, and we just recently started talking again, and then he wanted to start texting. And even though he hasn't seen me in a while, he said I look good. And then when I saw him at his work place, he was getting ready to go back to work. And he stopped to talk to some of his friends, but he didn't say hi, or wave, or nothing to me, he just looked and walked on, even though I smiled. Urgh, its been killin me, I don't know now if he likes me, it seemed like it before that day. I'm so confused, and blehh. Please someone give me some advice about this. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2011): I would say that he probably has some feelings for you, but he knows that as he is an adult and you are a child, that its a no go, and he probably doesn't want to admit it to his friends. When I was 15 I had a relationship with an 18 year old, but he made me keep it secret, as it was technically illegal for us to be sleeping together. Personally, if I could give you advice on this, it would be to stay away, 'secret' relationships with older (and therefore 'cooler') boys may seem exciting, but it just ends in a lot of tears, and they won't be his. I regret the relationship I had, and wouldn't wish it on anyone else. Even if he is a nice guy, he is a lot older, and he is going to want to do things you can't, or shouldn't at your age, so steer clear and stick to boys closer to your own age :) hope this has helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2011): One of 2 things is going on: He may still see you as a little sister/friend and he's trying to put some distance between you. (Sorry, I know you don't want to hear that!)
Or, he might very well like you, but he is legally an adult. Depending on what state you live in, the age of consent is either 16, 17, or 18 ... which makes you jailbait, at least until your next birthday. It's possible that someone recently reminded him that he's too old for you, and that explains his change in behavior.
Either way, I know it's hard but give it some time.
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reader, lrmccracken14 +, writes (25 May 2011):
honestly he is 19 and you are 15. he probably didnt want his friends to know so didnt act like he knew you. he probably likes you though because i mean you are 15 and he wouldnt text you unless he really wanted too. my bets would say hes into you but doesnt want people to know so dont push it
hope i helped
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