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*azzie1
writes:Here I go again.. me and my abusive boyfriend of 4 years are done. I've given him opportunity's to change from being a cheater more than once and putting his hands on me.. the recent incident was Friday because he got upset for how I was speaking to him that he sort of slapped me on the side of my head that I fell onto the sofa.. he had the audacity to say that I'm a grown woman and that I should know how to respect.. I think I finally came to my senses that he may not change he's always telling me how much he loves me and that he wants to get married but how can someone love so hard but be violent..I have no doubt in my mind that he loves me but why do I feel that if I leave him I will end with another liar and someone who doesn't love me the way he does..and to top it off an incident occured with my 8 year old where I was yelling at him and he threw a blanket at me and my ex thought that he threw it at him and he got upset and told me I should have yelled at him for that and that what would I think if my son was 18 what would have happened..that really had me thinkin cuz I have a 14 year old also.. what's wrong with me.. please help me I need advice!
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reader, bootyboot +, writes (20 April 2009):
wow, leave this creep. he cheats on you and hits you in front of your kid. he sounds like a winner. you need to get away from him because the violence will escalate and who knows, he could kill you.
i know it's tough, but you need to start your own life without this guy, learn to love yourself and have confidence in yourself, because if you don't have that confidence you might end up with another type like this guy. those kinds of men can smell vulnerability and weakness in a woman and take advantage of her weak state.
so take care of yourself and start working on you. you don't need a man to make you happy, you need to learn to find it within!!
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (20 April 2009):
 So you have left him? Sorry I just want you to clear that up as your post isn't that clear.
If you have left him, then that is great! If you haven't why the hell not?
To have children in this situation is just wrong, never go back to him, report him to the police, this man needs to be in jail!
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