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writes:I am in college and just met a guy two weeks ago who lives two doors down from me in my dorm. We have gotten pretty close in the past two weeks with great conversations and I even started giving him back rubs. I have to admit that at I really like him, maybe more than a friend but after thinking about it I decided that getting into a relationship at the beginning of the school year with someone who lives so close wouldn't be a good idea. After I was done rubbing his back last night, he gave me a hand rub and told me that when I was massaging him that his body was mine to explore, no commitments. What does that mean? I joke about sex a good amount but I'm never serious.... Reply to this Question
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (18 September 2007):
 You said: told me that when I was massaging him that his body was mine to explore, no commitments. What does that mean? I joke about sex a good amount but I'm never serious....
Then don't joke about it, because you are leading him on, and he is taking you seriously. He is telling you he wants sex from you. If you like him and want to, go for it. Otherwise, don't go for, and stop leading him on with jokes and massages.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, lovejunkie +, writes (17 September 2007):
 Then you probably need to tell him this before things get more physical and emotional. And maybe spend less time with him if you can. He's obviously attracted to you, and interested in having sex. If you're not feeling the same way, then you need to put the brakes on before it goes further. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2007): It means he wants no strings attached sex. If you're not looking for sex, quit giving his rub downs and talking about sex with him, joking or not.
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