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writes: Hi allI've a question. I was seeing a man younger than me. He is very nice and sweet. He didn't want his friends to know about our relationship. Mainly because they aren't very mature. I think it's cause of my age. Am 33. We'd meet up every week or so. And call during the week. He had it difficult making ends meet so he had to get a second job. So then it was only phone calls. And the occasional hello when I was in that part of town. Months later he has lost his phone and is not in a financial position to replace it, so no phone calls. Now it's the occasional hello only. Sometimes is an awkward hello. Sometimes it's a sweet hello. We don't talk about anything else other than small talk. I don't know much about relationships. Had one previous relationship that lasted 8-9 years. He ended up 'spliting' with me and starting a new relationship and telling me a year later. So I know nothing about how guys think. Is this relationship over? Does he have someone else now? I believe the right thing to do is ask him, but I have no idea how. And I'm terrified of asking by the way. Any help would be appreciated.Thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2009): Thank you guys. I was wondering how to ask?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): you deserve better than a phone call or just a greeting now and then you need a guy who wants to see you take you out everyday and there are millions of men like that you just need to get yourself out there.I do think this is a lost cause but dont give up on dating!
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