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writes:My Boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 3 months and he pursued me a lot in the beginning. Everyone told me he really wanted to be with me, a lot of the deep conversations we have about our relationship is my ability to trust guys in general not just him. We recently discussed this and for the past two days I have not gotten my regular text from him, but he called and we talked. He says he is falling and doesn't want to fall in love alone. Do you think by him not texting me as much as he has and not texting me back that he is losing interest in me, even though he tells me on that phone that he is not losing interest?
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reader, mustangsally  +, writes (5 August 2008):
It sounds like he's trying not to become so attached to you, just incase you're not that attached. You've only been dating 3 months, he can't really be losing interest already, maybe he's just one of them commitment-phobes, and is scared that he's becoming too obsessed with you. Maybe it's a good thing that he didn't text you, it might make you appreciate the texts he does send.
:) I'm sure everything's fine, and you're just being paranoid. Hope everything works out. x
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (5 August 2008):
 i was just reading up on this. men are scared of their emotions and dealing with them. If anything..he's IS falling in love with you. The best thing to do in this situation is give a Man their space and distance. They will come back to you when they figured everything out themselves. Don't rush them.
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