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30-35,
*hristina_x
writes:I know a guy who just got back from boot camp for the marines. We didn't really talk much before he left. He had texted me a couple of times telling me Im beautiful, and that he had liked me but I never had feeling for him, he's just a friend.I would only reply so often because I would forget to or I was doing something and replied late. Well when he got back from boot camp all of a sudden he wants to take me out on a date but I would always say no every time he asked. I said maybe on Monday after work, he said okay and that was that. Then on Monday he texted but it was the first day of classes for the semester and I was at school most of the day, when I got home I went to my friends to hangout and totally forgot when I got home it was already late and I was tired. After that he just kept texting me but I've been ignoring him because its gotten very annoying because I don't even like him in that way. Yesterday I got a tattoo and what do you know he shows up scheduling to get one. I felt so bad because he asked me AGAIN at the tattoo shop if I would go out on a date. I said no, because I have work the next couple of days and that I'm sorry. I'm not trying to sound like a mean person or anything but am I being too hard? I said sorry, I don't know whether to feel bad or not because karma is a bitch.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (19 January 2013):
 You have been stringing him along. Maybe the guy is particularly thick, and a sharper guy would have got the hint already and understood that you are not into him, - this does not change the fact that " I am not coming out with you because I am busy, or tired " is certainly not the same as " I am not coming out with you because I don't want to ". Stop giving him the runaround, and tell him straight, thanks but no thanks, you'll hurt him much less than giving him false hopes.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (19 January 2013):
 Sometimes we have got to be cruel to be kind, it will a weight off your shoulders if you just told him out right that you are not interested and that you don't see him in that way.
Good luck
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