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A cousin question...

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Question - (17 March 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 March 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok so I am 15 and my cousin now 16. We are both males. When he comes over my house to play video games and stuff like that I always have an erection when I look at him. Sometimes I would peer at his "area" and see a bulge sometimes. When I play hit him he always smiles like always and I always catch him staring at me. My question is could it be that he is bi or gay? To try and figure this out myself I would wrap up in a sheet and stick my finger out over my 'area' to simulate an erection and his always looks and starts smiling and laughing and then he says I am a perv when in actuality I am kind of a pervert but I think he enjoys me acting perverted around him because he smiles alott when I do act perverted like making moaning sounds and stuff like that. Since we are teens and we have erections sometimes constantly could it be that he has had an erection during one of the times he has stayed over my house? On the internet just 2 days ago I showed him yaoi which in english means male x male having sex. I showed him DBZ yaoi with Goku and Vegeta and he actually read it for a little while laughing and smiling as usual then he eventually went to another site. Could it be that he enjoyed reading it? Now he has lost his virginity a few months ago to a girl but he hasn't done it since but since I've been acting perverted around him his attitude kinda changed from what it was is it me who might be changing him to be gay?

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A female reader, MissKin United Kingdom +, writes (17 March 2008):

MissKin agony auntIt's typical for teenage boys (and teenage girls for that matter) to be curious and confused about their sexuality and sexual feelings. You may both be feeling curious and confused. However, the fact that he is your cousin provides the main problem. Regardless of if he feels attracted to your or enjoys it when you are being 'perverted' as you say, nothing can (well, nothing should) happen between you because you're cousins. I think you should think less about it and not let anything hapen between either of you. It's okay to be curious but.. perhaps not with your cousin dear.

I hope things end up okay.

Best wishes,

MK

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