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writes:I've been dating me boyfriend for three years and two of those years we have been having sex, But I have never done it on top! To be honest I'm a little scared to and I'm not sure how to do it. So I have two questions, How do I give by boyfriend good sex on top and what are good, easy positions. Reply to this Question
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reader, Gena Bullock +, writes (13 March 2008):
 First of all, you're too young to be having sex in the first place, much less 'on top.' I am not at liberty to discuss the matter except to say-SLOW DOWN. I wish parents would be more responsible in raising children nowadays.Stuff like this brings on more unwanted babies into our world, who, in turn, are allowed at a young age, like yourselves to have sex or get away with it and then the cycle repeats itself all over again. Have a milkshake and go to a movie. Old fashioned! YES, I AM! Gena
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2008): I find this position the only way to make me climax! It feels so good.
There is no need to be scared, all the other aunts have pretty much explained what to do, nothing can go wrong really.
After a few times practising this position, you will get the rhythm of how to rock yourself on his penis and also grind which feels alot better i reckon.
Tip! . . Take it slow to start with and lean forward pushing down hard on to his penis so he is penetrating you really deep this stimulates your clitoris and gives you the best orgasm's!
Give it a whirl & enjoy!
Kay x
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (12 March 2008):
 Must agree with both "BigSis" and "Collaroy" previously, it is very easy and natural. They gave good advice, plus you can lean back, "grind," and also turnaround and face away for various kinds and angles of penetration. In this position you have most of the control and it may quickly become one of your favorite positions. Have at it!
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reader, BigSis  +, writes (12 March 2008):
 First of all, there is nothing to be scared of. Being on top is one of my favourite positions, and if i may say - one of the most pleasurable.
While he's laying there, lean over towards him, kiss and caress his neck and his chest, do what you can to get him aroused, then slowly climb over him, as if you were kneeling - only with your legs either side of his waist. Bend forward to kiss him as this will make you raise your bottom, {this will most certainly give him an erection by now} then slowly sit back up then you can either wriggle yourself on to his thingy, or with your hand - guide it in yourself, he may even put it in himself.
You will feel so much more pleasure this way and deeper penetration is a cert.(Initially it may hurt a little because of how deep it penetrates, but you will overcome that pain, as eventually it will become a pleasureable one}.
You could even try it while he's sitting upright on an armchair, the sofa, in bed or even in the car. Sit on his lap but facing him, legs astride, and when he's hard enough it will find it's way home ;)
After you've mastered those positions a couple of times, you will wish you'd done it a long time ago.
Finding new positions will come naturally too, and eventually you'll have the spiciest sex of your lives. Having the same sex position all the time can get tedious and sex will then become a bore. You've known eachother long enough, so get in there and experiment. Hope this advice has helped. All that's left for me to say now is...
...have fun you guys. :)
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (12 March 2008):
 Hi,
you have been having sex for two years and never been on top?
Boy! o.k. its easy, simply get him to lie on his back with his legs close together, then straddle him like you would riding a horse , you will now be positioned over his penis, a lot of women love this position ( especially if their guy is big in the trouser area ) as they can control how much of the penis enters you. So straddle him and position his penis above your vagina, then simply guide it in, don't bounce up and down on him just yet, make sure he is hard and that he is entering you with ease . Once he is sliding in easily enough then just rock on his dick - it will slide in and out easily enough - you might want to use some lube to make entry easier for this as I remember one of my first sexual partners didnt like being on top as she was so tight that she found it uncomfortable trying to work my dick inside her.
But let nature take its course, practice makes perfect!
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