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writes:Well, long story short, i've been with my current boyfriend for just over a month now, im 16 and he's 23, and our relationship is great. Great amount of emotion, great amount of communication, great sex life, just, great everything! But tonight was weird, he was still acting like he usually does and i was still kinda, acting like i usually do except this little thing being my problem in a minute.. One of my mates *joe had a free house tonight, so a load of my mates and i all went around there. Now i suppose you could call us the typical youth of today, we drink, we smoke and we do drugs. Now i dont need lecturing on any of that because i know what im doing to my body, i know im too young, and yes i know that i will suffer the consequences. So that out of the way, where was i, well everyone was on speed, green and alcohol tonight. So it was a bit messy as you could imagine, but getting to my problem anyway.. His girlfriend was asleep in the bedroom, my boyfriend was in the same room but totally indulged in playing around with youtube, and my other 2 friend where there just chilling on one sofa, and me and *joe were on the other, anyway getting on with the story quickly firstly he was sat on the arm of the sofa next to me, and kept occasionally touching my hand, then he came and sat next to me, kept doing the same, then put his feet up and started kinda rubbing mine with his and that, then quickly moved a little but not much away when someone looked like they were looking over. But the main thing here is that i didnt stop him from doing it! I was actually liking it, it got me so turned on, and now i feel like a total evil person for thinking that. Even though i wouldn actually take it further cos im not like that, i still feel like the most rubish girlfriend in the world! I know this isn't really a question but i just needed to say this somewhere...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI must say, fair dues to you cupidguy, i know what your saying now since you've actually explained your point a bit more there, where as before, to me, it kind of came across as you looking down your nose at me, but now i completely understand where your coming from and no longer think that, cheers x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI dont only want pleasure!! Lol correct me if im wrong but it seems to me that you, cupid, are basically insinuating that cos i like to party hard, means that i'd fling my self at anyone? Dont judge a book by its cover, yeah i might like to get high n drunk but that doesn't make me any less of a person, yeah i know the drugs and booze were probably the reason why i let it carry on and actually got me going a bit, and i know that on its own is bad enough, but i do have the sense to not take things any further than i coulda done. Like i said, i didnt post this for lectures, i didnt really even come on here for advice really, as the saying goes, a problem shared is a problem halved, and i do feel a sense of relief for getting it out there..
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks people, i guess i feel a bit better about the whole situation now. Cupidguy, well what can i say? Your response was ever ever so helpfull :/ why'd you even bother if what you've got to say is really no help what so ever? Just because i smoke, do drugs and drink doesn't mean im a complete twat.
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (2 August 2008):
 I wouldnt beat yourself up about it. If I may say so it sounds like you liked the attention which one may say is natural. As others have kinda said as long as it goes no further then you have done nothing wrong and I think in a way it does credit to how strongly you feel about your bf that you do feel this guilt. My best advice is put it down to experience, grab your bf and do things with him that make you feel even better and just make sure you don't make a habit of it/go any further....
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk the people who chose the titles got it wrong, i didnt write that it was a sexual act. It was flirtyness but in a really sneeky snidey way, and even though i wasn't doing anything apart from letting it happen i still really hate myself for it, i feel like a proper twat :/ x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): So he was rubbing his feet against yours?I'm confused, as thats not a sexual act..Maybe flirting, but nothing to feel really guilty about.I wouldn't even mention it to your boyfriend, that's how unimportant this is, so dont stress!Good luck!xx
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reader, lushlass93 +, writes (2 August 2008):
 just because another guy got you stimualted doesnt make you bad you didnt actually do anything wrong so dont feel bad and just dont do that with the person again
if you do it again then you are doing something bad becasue you know you enjoy it
good luck xx
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