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writes:Just found out some one I like over thirty years ago been mad at me all this time, our last date she thought I put something in her drink, a drug, I didn't, she left me that night and went home with this other guy, who was trying to make me out the bad guy, guess who put it in her drink, she still doesn't believe me, should I try again, I just want the truth to be told, when you are falling in love, the only drug you need is love, not trying to get back with her Reply to this Question
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reader, goldie22  +, writes (8 April 2016):
You need to let it go lovely. I understand that being accused of drugging somebody must feel awful even if it was 30 years ago. Sadly though if she still won't take your word then you need to forget about it and move on as there's not alot else you can do. Don't let it bother you any more. You know that your innocent and that's what matters x
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (8 April 2016):
 Some people hold long grudges. She probably needs this lie in order to be happy. Let her have it. Her emotions do not affect you.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (8 April 2016):
 You say that you just found this out recently, therefore yes am sure it came as a shock to you, you say she still doesn't believe you, therefore you have obviously already told her it was not you. I guess the best thing to do now is to let it go, why would you want anything to do with someone who feels you are capable of drugging them? Leave it in the past.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (8 April 2016):
 You’ve told her the truth, she’s just chosen not to accept it. I would stop trying. Some things just can’t be fixed. Especially 30 years later... it’s past time for you to let this go.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (8 April 2016):
 30 years.... and you're still hanging on to this?
I'm guessing that you haven't ever fallen out of like with this girl.... and you'd love to set the record straight. That's all well-and-good.... but she's already told you that she won't believe you, no matter what you say...
P.S. What happened between her and the guy who you think DID spike her drink?
Good luck...
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