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writes:Im a 21 yd old guy im a virgin and im really embarrassed my penis is very small just 2.5 inches when erect ive been seeing a girl for about 4 months shes my first gilrfriend and im too embarrassed to show her my penis im worried she will laugh at mewhat can i do how can i increase the size can i even satisfy a girl?
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (23 August 2008):
 Can i also chime in here.
# : get good at going down on a chick.
For those of us with avarage even decent sized dicks....Alot of us arn't getting any or even have gf;s. so count your self lucky.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2008): Dear Poster
I have noticed there are some problems with the appropriate link.
I have copied the relevant information for you:
Tips & techniques
Tips for great sex with small penises
One of men’s greatest fears about their penises is that they’re not big enough. For some men it doesn’t matter how big it is, it will never be big enough. The truth is that for most men size is more an ego issue than anything else.
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It’s vital to be aware of the fact that sex is not only about penetration, there is so much more to enjoy and explore. We are all ‘whole-body’ beings. The deepest and most satisfying experiences include all of ourselves, not just our genitals.
There has been such a focus in the media on orgasms that we take that to be the goal of sex. But it’s not a goal-directed act. Sex and sensuality are about love, pleasure, exploring, excitement. Orgasms are great, but there’s more!
It’s also important to note that very few women actually have orgasms through sheer penetration.
Techniques
Techniques that focus on oral stimulation, genital massage, expanded orgasm etc can bring enormous satisfaction, deep pleasure and orgasms.
One of the most amazing sensations is to be found in rubbing the head of your penis, lots of lubricant, on her clitoris. It feels totally different to a finger or tongue.
Different positions will also allow for different internal sensations. Rear-penetration such as ‘doggy’, woman on top, woman on her back, legs over her shoulders will give some very cool sensations, almost regardless the size of a penis.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2008): Dear Poster
Herewith a link with lots of information that I think might be suefull to yourself.
http://health.mweb.co.za/sex/Tips_techniques/1253-1254,32484.asp
Always remember it is not just the size of the penis that is important, but the skills of the lover are more important.
Best wishes and lots SMILES.
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reader, pashanoodle +, writes (23 August 2008):
 Hey there. I reckon you need to remember that there is more to sex and satisfaction than just the penetrative side of things - perfect your kissing, caressing, your oral technique...you know, all the other things that go into making sex with someone special so enjoyable. You need to be able to relax and enjoy her too - and see what happens then!
It's natural for you to be feeling a bit anxious about having sex for the first time...all virgins do I think, but if you have confidence issues because of your thoughts about your penis size it is likely it will be that that causes problems rather than your penis! If you go in thinking you won;t satisfy her (no pun intended) - how will you possibly be able to relax and enjoy the experience...and 'get into it'?
Have you ever seen an Endocrinologist about your penis size? They deal with hormone function in the body - and hormones are all connected with sexual function, puberty, growth etc etc....so - maybe that would be a place to start?
My other thought is that maybe you would benefit from seeing a sex therapist...I know, you're freaking out at the suggestion - but no, they are not quite what the title suggests - it's actually a legitimate form of therapy - they treat individuals and couples with sexual problems - which are often psychologically based.
If that seems a bit full on - you could aways try seeing a normal psychologist - to work on your confidence and thought processes around this stuff.
If you go to the Australian Psychological Society's website you can search for someone who specialises in a particular area (eg; sexual dysfunction or anxiety..whatever) and is near you. Or see your GP for a referral!
Hope this is of some help!
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