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writes:am 20 and ive never had a serious relationship... am a nice girl with a big heart.. friends loves me and everyone i meet says am a lovely person..guys all say am pretty and sexy.but i want a guy who would love me.. am always alone on Christmas and Valentines day:( ive been with 4 guys..all broke my heart and left me..am not easy girl... i wait to have sex..ive slept with 2 guys.will i ever find love?? (am crying as i type this)every guy i meet i think aww hes nice just wants sex and cos i dont give in..i never hear from them again..been single for a year now:) i feel like ive got sex written on my forehead:(is there hope??thnx..x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 December 2009):
Of course there's hope! There are millions of men around. Some fantastic, some terrible. You have to find yourself a fantastic one. They're out there, but you have to work through all the terrible men to get to them. I suspect you've been meeting guys in the wrong places. So you need to meet them in the right places now. If you have a hobby you enjoy, and where other men are, then that's a great way to get to know men. Even if nothing comes of knowing some other guys, at least you'll understand us a bit more, so when the right one comes along you can grab him. Take your time, keep your standards and you'll find a great guy.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (9 December 2009):
Where are you meeting these men??
If the answer is just in pubs and clubs then THAT is your main problem.
You need to meet NICE guys. So expand your circle of friends, join some groups, and meet people who will get to know you, not just stare at your boobs.
There are millions of nice men out there. You've just been unlucky so far.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, askc  +, writes (9 December 2009):
Am in pretty much the same situation myself! But I have found 2 guys that have genuinely loved me in the past couple of years and I didnt sleep with them so I dont think they were just saying it. You're only 20, dont worry about it, enjoy the single life while you can, you will most definitely find someone, you neednt worry about that so early in your life, so dont settle for less, you'll find a guy whose crazy about you :) x
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reader, lazyman87 +, writes (9 December 2009):
don't worry! the lads that only want sex aren't right for a girl that wants a serious relationship. a lot of guys tend to want sex, but some of us aren't like that.
trust yourself that you'll find the right man for you. you don't know when you will, or who he is, but he is out there. someone will love you for who you are, and respect you that you don't give it away. when you find him, keep him!
best of luck xx
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