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anonymous
writes:i have 2 questions:okay heres the first. i can't cum no matter what. i've tried masturbating different ways, but nothing works, and i have been mastubating since i was young and i can have an orgasm but i don't cum.. and the only way i have an orgasm is laying on my stomach humping my thumbs.. is that normal? anyways, the other night my boyfriend wanted to finger me for the first time and he started to and then stopped because he didn't want to hurt me because i was dry. he thought that i wasnt horny so we tried it the next night and i was very horny and i wanted him to finger me, but i was dry again. i was pretty positive i had had an orgasm because i had that almost having to pee feeling, but why am i still dry?the second question is a body question. is it normal for my nipples to get hard alot? like even when i'm not horny, if my bf touches my nipple it just gets hard.. its really weird and i was wondering if that's normal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2008): hey its me... thanks for the help! tonight he didn't try to finger me but i came, and i told him after, so i'm sure we will progress from here... thankyou for the help!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (5 November 2008):
 You seem to expect "squirting," which is something that is more unusual than common. If you think that a lot of fluid will squirt during your orgasms, you are misinformed. However, most females do emit a small amount of a seminal fluid through the urethra which typically goes unnoticed amid all the other fluids that occur during sexual activity (such as lubrication and the male's ejaculation).Regarding the "dryness," I suspect that the problem is inadequate foreplay. In other words, it takes awhile for you (and most women) to really be turned on, or heated up, or "horny" as you say. It is agreed that you need to be relaxed and comfortable, and feeling very feminine, but then you probably need a lot of kissing and fondling from your partner before you will begin to experience wetness down there. Should this not occur after at least 15 or 20 minutes of foreplay, then you may indeed have a medical problem. Some women do have dryness problems, but it is usually later in life.Regarding nipple hardness - that's a good thing. Enjoy it. Your partner certainly will.
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reader, Boredatwork  +, writes (5 November 2008):
 First of the nice easy one... Nipples... Yes they get hard all the time, it just means there are sensative... a good thing :)
No not being a girl and not having experianced the female orgasam (1st hand anyway, lol) i may not be correct, but an orgasam would be more then a feeling of needing to pee, it will be a build up of tension over a period of time, that finally gets released, I know this isint the best bit of advise you can receive, but one you do have you... YOU WILL DEFINETLY KNOW ;)
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