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writes:My boyfriend doesnt get tired during sex , and he doesnt CUM ! we'v lasted for 2 hours of having sex and im usually exausted and a little sore and hes still going at it . and i feel bad to tell him to stop even though i know he wouldnt mind , but can someone please tell me how i can fix this situation ; So that he can be completly satisfied and stop on his own instead of me having to stop short . Reply to this Question
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reader, spanishquerida  +, writes (3 November 2010):
You're right, there's no rush. I understand that you've been together a long time and that you are about to be sixteen, which may be legal in your state. It's just that even at sixteen your body might not have finished maturing, and if he is around the same age as you then that may be one of the problems. Your bodies just aren't ready for it yet. There are also incresed health risks if you begin to have sex at an early age, not just STIs and pregnancy, so be careful and just wait a little longer. As you said, there's no rush ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@ vanessavenus , That sounds like a good idea . I thought about doing that before but i just wanted a second opinion , THANKS :)
@spanishquerida Yeah your right , im pretty young ; but im about to turn 16 , we'v been together for about 9 months now , but maybe i will stop . theres no rush :P
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reader, spanishquerida +, writes (3 November 2010):
Simple - you stop having until you're older, and it is actually legal.
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reader, vanessavenus  +, writes (2 November 2010):
 I've had the same problem with my boyfriend in the past. I climax pretty easily and repeatedly but there's such a thing as too much- he could go on and on, not tiring, the whole night (I'm not exaggerating. It would take him at least two hour to cum and he would want to do so at least four times- do the maths). So we could start immediately after work and continue till the next morning. At least three times a week!!! His French sleep never lasted more than ten minutes, and we were at it again. He is a great lover so I always felt bad stopping him knowing he wanted, needed more.
The solution for us was simple- communication. We talked about it and he showed me what he did to arouse and make himself cum on his own. No guy would spend eight hours masturbating so he taught me the things he did to himself then. Combined with things we do together as a couple, we spiced up the bedroom with these exercises and it made things easier for the both of us. It didn't take as long, and we brought it down to 2-3 hours at most. It was awkward at first, but he appreciated the fact that I would go out of my way to satisfy him as such and he did even more for me.
I hope this helps.
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