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Things went too far with friend and now I don't know how to talk to her

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Question - (2 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 November 2010)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

The other night I was out with some friends shopping and I ran into my best friend from elementary school, mom. We hadn't seen each other in about 8 yrs or so.

She gave me her number and told me to text her sometime and I did cause I was bored. We talked and talked and she invited me out for some coffee to catch up. We both agreed to do this more often. But later that night we were walking to our cars and she wanted to hold my hand. We acted like 2 little girls just being stupid. It was funny.

But last night I went out with her again and we ended up going to her house and we were alone. We started kissing and one thing lead to another. And I think it wernt a lil too far. Now I feel very weird about it..what should I do or say to her about all of this?

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A male reader, Cerberus_Raphael Sweden +, writes (3 November 2010):

Cerberus_Raphael agony auntWell it all depends on whether or not you enjoyed what happened? Do you regret it?

Either way, it is necessary to have a discussion about what happened to avoid possible awkwardness that may follow. Who knows? There could in fact be something deeper here. But it does not have to be awkward unless you allow it to be.

I hope that helps.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010):

obviously she felt confused and startled afterword

you should maybe give her some time especially if shes not texting you

but dont wait to long to talk to her

when you talk to her it might be a little okward

tell her how you feel and what been on your mind and ask her how she feels about all of this

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