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writes: my bodfriend and i split up just before christmas after 11 years.its his birthday and he 30 i am 47 i love and miss him so much he says he happy but still texts me at least once or twice a week asking how my new job is. he rung me last week to ask if i had any funny texts as he mislead his phone. he moved out with me and moved straight in with another women who has a 8 years old child. he got his phone back but he said also some numbers had been deleted. i know he probably find its hard to forget after 11 years but if he happy why text me is he trying to leep me sweet incase it gos wrong.he still got some clothes here. and my front door key is i said he could keep hold of it. as he said he cannot remember where he put it. he gave me half the hoiday money back but still not letting go of the last bit do you think i have hope of him coming back to me of am i wastng my time.i saw him last week as i was walking down the road with my friend he waved and horned at me and then sends me a text saying that wasnt running that was walking and was i okay. as i had my running gear on why all this if he is happy help
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reader, Dreamlover +, writes (15 May 2009):
Love, its time to move on, if you found the strength to let go after 11 years you need to follow through for both your sakes. He cant have his bread and eat it. Maybe you can be friends? But you need to lay down the rules and conditions if you continue to talk to him. He walked out, he has someone else, its time for him to acknowledge that and be an adult about it.
You sound bright and funny, but dont let your heart be on your sleeve, 11 years is a lifetime, but not your lifetime, you have so much more to live and see.
Go out there and make yourself happy you deserve it now.
Now is your time
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