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anonymous
writes: Im 17 and have had a girl friend for about 2 months but she wont hug me without me asking and she wont kiss me. shes always sayin im cute and that she loves me.she recenly told me that shes had 4 boy freind and shes masterbate them after just a few weeks.does this seem normal and what can i do about it.also when i do hug her i bemore slightly erect is this normal? thx for help Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): Do about what? Make her hug you w/o asking... ok, she's a bit reserved... she'll loosen up over time. Make her kiss you - same thing... make her jerk you off... sounds like she enjoys doing that... your turn is next.
Normal? There is no normal, but does this seem abnormal- no.
You're 16/17- you have a girl who's somewhat sexually active, and your hugging her- good news! Getting a hard on is NORMAL!
relax! All sounds well.
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reader, veronika +, writes (25 January 2010):
Ask her why she won't kiss you?
It seems strange that she's telling you about sexual experiences with her exes after "just a few weeks", but then won't even kiss you after two months. Perhaps she's trying to make you jealous? In which case, it's pretty dumb and she needs to stop it.
It is normal to get aroused from hugging, for both men and women. Especially if it's with someone you have feelings for. So there's nothing to worry about there.
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