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writes:My friend is flirting with the guy I like. What do I do I love him so much.The girl who is flirting with him is really prettty and she sent me to hospital when I was in primary. She bullys me all the time. She made me start cutting myself because I'm small and ugly and now i feal like crying my eyes out. I really like this guy
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): I suggest you be as confident as you can be. because all the boys im friends with say when a girls confident in herself she can be the most beutiful girl. makesure that you dont listen to what the bully says and which boy likes a bully, maybe you wanna tell him that tthis girl is a total bitch?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (4 June 2007):
 Whoa, she isn't making you do anything, YOU are allowing her to bully you. You need to get yourself to the school counselor. He/she can help see that you get the help that you so desperately need. Once you start feeling in control of your own life, you will stop the cutting. Once your self-esteem improves you won't allow anyone to bully you. You will need professional help with this. Go to the school counselor today or your doctor. By the way, where are your parents?
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (3 June 2007):
 Hun. She ain't your friend. YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN THIS.Don't make yourself agree with what this girl says! She's a liar and obviously an absolute piece of sh*t to be honest. ( I apologise for the bad language but I hate bullies) you're so much better han her!I used to self harm, but believe me, it's soo not worth it. When you think about doin it, tell yourself " if I do this, she has power over me. And I have free will and she will not gain control over me."I suggest you talk to someone about her bullying you. A teacher or someone you trust. Don't go through this alone. YOU NEED TO TELL SOMEONE. I promise you, you will be better off if you do.I swear to you that I have no doubt what so ever that you are attractive and you have the power to get over this.She's obviously very unattractive by showing this side of her.Don't let her win hun.As for this guy, I know how hard unrequitted love is, we've all been there so don't feel that you have to go through this alone. It's a part of life hun and you will prevail, but cuttin yourself and keepin it to yourself will make the matter worse. Talk to an adult, your mum or dad maybe? older brother or sister? tell someone about her bullying you.I suggest you stay clear of this guy, I know it's hard, Believe me, I know! But right now, you need to looka fter yourself before you take on the next of your problems. Talk to someone about this girl, clear your head, don't speak to this guy for a while until everything you are goin through with this girl is cleared up.Message me if you like, we'll talk further. But please, don't cut yourself for someone as worthless as this girl. It's not worth it I swear to you.Look after yourself. This girl ain't your friend. x
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