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*DestinX
writes:Hi there..My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. We have been through a lot including abortion. 3 days ago I was ready to walk out because he's always flirting with this one girl and I have explained to him that it hurts me. I understand that it shows I have trouble trusting him. But when I didn't leave he saw my stuff all packed and freaked. Now he's been confusing me because one minute he wants to be together the next he wants to be broken up. Then last night he tells me he wants to "take things one day at a time and see if there are any other problems" and "even if we do break up we might get back together in a few years" then he wants sex. so my question is.. what do I do? Is he telling me he wants space? I really want to be with him but I can't wait for him forever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008): let him git that grass on the other side of the fence dont be hurt about it if you love him thats just apart of going up your time will come in life were you think you want somethink else TD
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): I think you both need some space for a month or so. just to sort things out a little while. if within a month you both realize you can't live without each other then go back at it again. this time around you take it slow. he needs to realize that he has to respect you.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 April 2008):
 From what I see, you are considering leaving your boyfriend. The reason you give here is his flirting, but you also mention you have gone through a lot, including an abortion. And this decision of yours, whether you leave or stay, seems to depend on what he thinks about it. And because he doesn't seem to be able to decide whether he wants to be with you or not, you don't know whether you should leave or not.
Usually, when you want to be with someone, you know. There are no doubts or changes of mind. At the very least, he doesn't know what he wants.
I think you should talk to him and ask him to give you a straight and honest answer. If he won't, then you should leave. You can't wait for a decision forever.
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