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*inky minx
writes:i can't get a boyfriend my problem is that no lads what so ever are interested in me and i'm feeling left out all of my friends have boyfriends and i have no one and always feel like the goosberry when we go out i think it's because i'm on the chubby side have a drooping eye and am spotty i have only ever had 3 boyfriends before and they all turned out to be disasters i got treated lkike dirt and was used i really want a boyfriend is ther anything i could do to get boys to like mestacey x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): By the way, didn't you just leave a question saying you've just broke up with your boyfriend this morning? You've just had a boyfriend. There can't be THAT much wrong.
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reader, kinky minx +, writes (7 April 2008):
kinky minx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for all of your help and advice it as really made a difference and i will start to attend some activity clubs and hopefully meet a nice lad ther thanks again staceyxxxxx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 April 2008):
You've had 3 boyfriends! That must tell you something you are doing is right!
I didn't have my first boyfriend till I was 14 and then my next one till I was 17.
Boys of your age are all idiots anyway.
The other answers are right too - you need to get some self confidence or boys will walk all over you.
Go out and get some new hobbies. Take up karate and kick some arse! (and meet some sexy athletic types while you are there ;o) )
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): Maybe you're not reaching out to them enough honey! Join different clubs, do different things, go different places. Guys love girls that take chances and do different things - it shows they're different and interesting people to be around. Right now, they won't be wanting routine, so try not to settle into a constant boring cycle of what you do. Go out there, meet new lads, show them what you've got :]
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reader, Diketso  +, writes (7 April 2008):
Hi.before you get a boyfriend you need to love and like yourself.no decent guy will go out with someone that puts themselves down.this dating thing has nothing to do with your size.how do you love yourself.1stly you need to start doing thing that you love to do.any sport or activity that you like.then you start to look after your health.eating the right foods.working hard at school.never be around negative people they will only pull you back.for your skin get a good product like johnson n johson for you skin type.drink water.do not touch your spots,you only touch your face when you wash it.try getting clothes that make your best features stand out.remember to always love yourself first before you even think of friends and boyfriends.you deserve the best and dont forget that.this will help with your self esteem and the rest will follow.
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reader, vicctoriaaa +, writes (7 April 2008):
 your only young, don't worry about boyfriends now!
you have your whole life ahead of you to be worrying about things like that.
you could try flirting and things of that sort, and if your unhappy with your appearance then maybe try to work on it to boost your confidence.
the right boy will come at some point, it might not be at the same time as all your friends, but he'll come, don't you worry :)
good luck
xxx
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