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writes:Hi, I have been dating this great guy for about 3 months, Hes nice to me, Opens the door for me, always pays for diner.I met his mom an dad. Hes on the shy side, I have to grab his hand always first than he holds it.I want to get closer to him, but i don't know how to approach him bout it, We have slept in the same bed an he doesnt make a move. He plays with the dog in the bed more than me! Im attractive and thin so i dont know what the problem is. He gave me presents for Christmas and is good to me when were together, I just wish he was more affectionate, I really like him and want to get more intimate with him. What should I do? Hope someone can help me!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (15 January 2013):
 you are going to have to ask him what's up with the lack of sex. He may not know you want more physical intimacy.
He may be impotent and not want to share that with you (if he's your age or older)
He may be a closet gay and not dealing with it.
He may just be shy.
THE only way to know is to talk to him.
have you tried to kiss him? if not try that.
I can tell you that the first night my now hubby and I slept in a bed together he never laid a hand on me. He didn't even try to kiss me. And as it turns out, he has a very low sex drive.
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reader, mrswaldhauser  +, writes (15 January 2013):
 The only way you are going to sort this one hun is talking to him. You need to tell him how you feel about him and that you want to be more intimate. If he is shy then you perhaps need to help him out a little and make the first move. But communication is definitely the key here. If you don't say something you may end up living without it or moving on eventually because a relationship with no affection or intimacy can be very damaging, especially to a woman.
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