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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: i recentl found out i was pregnant me and my current boyfriend didn't use a condom but i slept with my ex-boyfriend and we did use a condom how likely is it that the baby i'm having is my ex-boyfriend?
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reader, agony_uncle_r +, writes (28 March 2007):
play with fire get your fingers burnt! why are you sleeping with your 'ex' while with your current bf?
i hope for the sake of your current bf its your exs baby, then he can leave your dishonest cheating relationship guilt free
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female
reader, Reebe +, writes (28 March 2007):
Hello
It's more likely that that the baby is your boyfriends but nothing can be guaranteed. I would say it was 50/50 chance either of them could be the father. You will never know unless you have a paternity test.
Why were you sleeping with both of them anyway?
I'm afraid the only choice you have is to decide if your going to tell your boyfriend about this or keep it to yourself. Although I think your child has the right to know who it's father is.
Good Luck!
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reader, Midge +, writes (28 March 2007):
How far on are you? What was the time frame between sleeping with one and then the other. If its within days of each other, then its a 50/50!
Sorry!
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male
reader, Blue Rat +, writes (28 March 2007):
If you used the condom correctly with your ex, and it didn't tear or come off inside you, then it's highly unlikely (but not impossible) that the baby is his. Short of a paternity test though, you'll never be 100% certain.
I'd be a bit more concerned about why you're still having sex with your ex, though.
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