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writes:dear cupid, I've been best friends with my friend for 12 years and recently we've got very close. He asked if there was a chance that we could become a couple, of course me being me I said yes I think that would be a great idea. He split up with his girlfriend of 2 years around 3 months ago and they were thinking of getting engaged. I ended up sleeping with him and he then went on saying how confused he was and how he didn't want to lose our friendship and lose our closeness, so he wanted to stay friends but then we slept together again and I'm now so confused. Am I just being silly or do you think we could end up being together and being a couple? How do I deal with this situation, I really think we'd be great together. many thanks
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reader, Cyg79  +, writes (14 July 2007):
 It sounds like you two are close. But he is just getting out of a serious relationship, he could be confused and unintentionally using you. I would say that if you want to give a relationship with him a shot you should take things slow and see how they develop. I think you should try and discusses these things with him, odds are he is still trying to work through his own feelings.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2007): look if you see him as more than a friend you need to let him know that yall cant be friends cause youre still in love with him and that you wanna be with him but then again you should probably not get with him because he could be just using you as a rebound chick cause if he was with whats her name for a 2 years and they broke up 3 months ago so thats not all that good!
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