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writes:This is a bit of a strange question, basically I have a light coloured ginger hair that people say looks really gold and my eyes are an unusual silver blue, everyone says they are my prettiest feature but I don't know what sort of eyeshadow to put on them, copper is supposed to be good but will that take away from the colour of my hair? I'm asking this because I was dumped a few months ago and within two weeks he had a new girlfriend and I'm still single, I want guys to notice my eyes rather than my GG boobs because I'm fed up with being the girl that's always single but has the body that guys think they can lark about with. I like this guy but no matter what i Wear or do he's not really interested. Can you help? How can I get him to notice me for being just nice and hopefully pretty (at least on the eye area) so that he'll be interested? Incase all the descriptions didn't help, I am of a strong Scottish heratige. Please help, I'm sick and tired of being the pathetic girl who can't get another guy :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2012): Ok stop focusing on getting a guy, you clearly need to work on your own confidence first, before any guy will notice you. It's only natural that your confidence would take a knock when your boyfriend broke up with you, it's his loss!
Now you need to get that confidence back and no other guy is going to give it to you, you build your own confidence.
How?! By going out with friends, spending time doing things you excel at, meet new people, join a club. Work on the inside first. You say you want guys to notice you for your personality instead of your body, well that's where to start. Then just talk to them and get to know them. Guys will pick up on how confident you are and that's what draws them in.
As for the eye shadow, just experiment with different colours and different styles, eg smokey eyes, experiment with different foundations that match your skin tone. Then you'll know what looks good on you and you'll have the confidence to wear it. But don't do it to get a guy to notice you, do it for you, because it will make you feel good inside.
Good luck.x
Good luck.x
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reader, Kyle007  +, writes (21 January 2012):
If no matter what you wear or do he is not interested, then accept that.
Don't you want a man that is interested in you?
And on what level do you want a man to be interested in you? Sexually? Emotionally? Intellectually?
Sorry to say, men are going to look at those GG boobs no matter what. Your eyeshadow matters to you and your ladyfriends.
Find someone you like and can trust and proceed from there.
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