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*WildThing~
writes:Hello :)I think i'm really starting to fall for this guy but he's 19 and is going to be my youth leader.now i expect i'm going to get some pretty blunt replies telling me to stop kidding myself but allow me to explain slightly.i started going to church when i was 13 and straight away started making good friends, one of which was, lets call him "T".I pretty much had a crush on him from the very start but over the years it has just grew and grew. he's the person i'd always turn to for advice and i know how angry he got when i did the opposite and ended up getting hurt. especially if it involved boys.he supported me when my best friend died a few months back and wouldnt just say the cliche of 'it will be okay' like everybody else does and then leave it.we've just had so many good memories and i can't even explain how i feel about him.i've mentioned that i like him before and he's shrugged it off but on ocassions has said that we can try when i'm 18. but we have had moments when perhaps the line has been crossed between how our relationship should be which is when he's said that we'll see what happens.i just really need to get it off my chest about how i feel about him but i dont even know how to start and i dont want to say it and get him angry because he thinks i expect what isnt possible atm.i'm utterly confused.please be completely honest in your replies, i won't mind xx
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reader, ~WildThing~ +, writes (29 August 2010):
~WildThing~ is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks caring guy :)
i decided to just tell him how i felt and explained that i know nothing can happen but i just needed to get it off my chest. he confirmed that nothing could happen now but who knows about the future. so it went well i think.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 August 2010):
Being honest, nothing here can happen at all. And he has said nothing can happen until you're 18, mostly because if something happened it could lead to him being put on the sex offenders register. He has, in essence, made it clear that he likes you but will not risk anything happening until you are of age and out of his care as a youth leader. If you told him, you'd have to move, and if something happened he'd be in trouble. Keep silent and if, when you reach 18, you want to take it further, then do. But not until then. Too much can go wrong.
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