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*razyclemens2005
writes: ok well i had another question i asked a little while ago and i have another problem with the same people which is bad...well i have strong feelings for the guy i am with now but my ex that i am still in love with but i know i dont need to be with is with a girl that i know that he can do better. He is hanging out with the wrong crowd and is shoving his new girlfriend in my face about how much prettier she is than me and..i know it is bad but i am jealous i dont know what to do...i dont want to feel jealous and..i love my ex's family and i really want to hang out with them still and they feel the same way but i cant be there when he or his gf is there.too ocward. but one of them are always there....his litle brothers and sister adore me and i love playinmg with them and helping his mom and dad out but i can stand being in the same house as them with them hugging and kissing i feel too jealous what should i do i have no idea
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (16 June 2007):
Hi there babes,
It sounds to me like he wants you to be jealous, why would he keep saying she is prettier if he didn't still care about you, you be better than that show him it doesn't bother you tell him your gald he is happy I know it will be hard but he won't expect you to act in this way, laugh when he is around always look happy and always look good he will soon give up this game if he knows its not getting to you hun...
Hope you manage to sort it all out go girl show him us girls don't crimble be strong bet he will be shocked...
Love Donna x
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (16 June 2007):
If it's ok with your exs family then see them when your ex isn't there. I would also tell you ex to get out of your face. It's unfair how he is throwing his new girlfriend in your face to hurt you.
Jealousy is a normal human feeling and I have experienced the little green eyed monster on many occasion. If he still does what he's doing after the chat with you, maybe a little chat with his parents may help. Don't slag the lad off but just explain to his family that his behaviour is upsetting you.
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