If I can't change who I am attracted to should I just accept loneliness?
Q. I have never expressed these feelings before to anyone; I am not looking for a pity party. I'm just looking for feedback. This is making me more depressed than I already am. I've been told countless times to date within my league. I've been told t...
A. 10 January 2011: There ain't nothing wrong with your motives here, you just need to continue to search. Don't bring yourself down, that is the worst thing you can do. As the great Sandra Bullock said " People care about people, who care about themselves" and I ... (read in full...)
Terrified to come out of the closet!
Q. im gay i've known since just a bit after starting puberty. I probably would say it was in high school i knew i was gay, well im just a bit scared to come out because im the only one in my family which is gay and i see that as alot of pressure i just ...
A. 10 January 2011: I too was scared, but you know what's worse? Living a lie.
Just tell them, because I can guarantee you that you will feel such a relief that it is off your chest. You won't be hiding nothing no more.
If you're scared about reactions, this ... (read in full...)
Controlling mother becoming too much for me.
Q. I've been having problems with my mother since I was a child, she's extremely controlling and it's becoming worse in the last few years. My mam has brought me up as a single parent for all my life and we've always lived with my elderly grandmot...
A. 10 January 2011: Hun, do what I did, and get out of there. You say your mother is scared you will leave? Maybe this is the wake up call she needs to change herself.
What kind of mother would put such an enormous amount of pressure on a young girl with her own ... (read in full...)
Do I tell him I like him now or risk waiting and someone else snatching him up?
Q. After getting hurt and messed around almost constantly for a year, I finally met someone a few months ago who makes me smile and I have a bit of a crush on him. I only really see him once a month at a club we go to, and one time he told me he is...
A. 10 January 2011: I have to agree with the above poster, or below, haha.
I have been in this situation before and I strongly encourage you to get to know him more and spend time socially as friends.
You seem to be just like me, afraid to be getting hurt aga... (read in full...)
He wouldn't tell me about her texts if he was planning to cheat right?
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months and we love each other a lot. About a month or 2 ago, a girl from his past (not ex, just hooked up) contacted him asking to hook up again. He told her he had a girlfriend but she continued to ...
A. 10 January 2011: It depends really. We can look at it two ways right?
1, he is being openly honest with you and letting you know that this "ex" of his, is texting him to try hook up. He is letting you know in advance, should you stumble upon any of his text mes... (read in full...)
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