I can't keep stringing them along, so who should I go for?
Q. hi, i need help, basically there is two lads i like, they are both really sweet, caring, and seem like really decent lads, one is 19 , really nice looking and really hot and he is really caring and knows how to show affection, hes at college a...
A. 9 February 2009: It's hard to choose. It does sound like you're truly attracted to the 19 year old, but maybe you should evaluate each person in detail. Who can you picture yourself being with long-term? Maybe you should pick the one that you know won't leave you ... (read in full...)
The guy I'm talking to now and the ex are friends!
Q. Hi guys, well this time last year I was seeing a guy for a couple of months, it wasn't serious, he finished it and nothing ever became of it. We remained civil and talk back and forth. Anyway a guy messaged me on my profile and he's really nice...
A. 4 February 2009: I don 't think there's anything to worry about. It sounds like you and your ex don't have any hard feelings. Even though they are friends, the past is the past and your ex had his chance. Now is the time to embrace this new man! Maybe you all ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I love her?
Q. I have a good friend named Jenny who is in a long term relationship who I'm in love with. I'm single and we hang out a lot because her boyfriend lives the other side of the country. I've had a crush on her for a long time but just recently my ...
A. 2 February 2009: From what you've said, it seems that she feels the same way. I've been down that road before and I know that I wanted the guy to tell me! Everyone always talks about ruining the friendship and rejection but if you don't tell her then you'll never ... (read in full...)
I came across this and I didn't know what to think and I want to know wether or not I should be concerned..
Q. After some snooping which I feel horrible about I came across this and I didn't know what to think and I want to know wether or not I should be concerned... I am trax, and the rest is kind of self explanatory... Look "ex bf", I love you a...
A. 18 January 2009: I wouldn't be concerned. These things happen all the time. Girls have some guy friends that they'll always have in their lives. It doesn't mean that they're attracted to them, it just means that they are life-long friends. The most horrible ... (read in full...)
Do I wait for her feelings for the ex to cool?
Q. my gf broke up with me because of someone else, she already dated him 2 years ago and she says she cant forget her past. she says that im just amazing and shes never had someone else care about her more then me, but i might be going somewhere where ...
A. 18 January 2009: It sounds like she really cares about your feelings, but honestly you should go. If it's meant to be then you guys will meet up in the future, if not then you can move on and meet someone that is totally right for you. I know that you're in love ... (read in full...)
Open mouth insert foot..now what?
Q. Last night I casually asked my gf if when we first started talking and seeing each other 6 months ago, if she was still thinking about getting back together with her ex as they had only just split up. I didn’t mean anything by it as I wasn’t ...
A. 16 January 2009: Most girls are full of emotions and baggage. If you push the wrong button then it's on the bad list you go! I'm personally not like that, but a lot of my friends are and their boyfriends are always putting up with it. I know it's not my place to ... (read in full...)
Open mouth insert foot..now what?
Q. Last night I casually asked my gf if when we first started talking and seeing each other 6 months ago, if she was still thinking about getting back together with her ex as they had only just split up. I didn’t mean anything by it as I wasn’t ...
A. 15 January 2009: Apologize :). It's hard to say you're sorry even if you don't think you did anything wrong. It's always the thing that everyone dreads. I wouldn't be too concerned, everybody has fights. Everything will blow over and it will be like nothing ... (read in full...)
How do you hint without going over the top?
Q. How can I hint to a guy that I really like him and want to be with him, without going over the top?...
A. 15 January 2009: I'm going through the same thing! It's hard to decide what's over the top and what isn't. It depends on the guy. If he likes a lot of attention then maybe you should be a little more assertive, but if he's shy then show him that you're there and ... (read in full...)
If I happen to see him there should I say anything to him?, and what if I'm his intern?, how should I act?
Q. So I feel really dumb writing this but here goes, I used to have this massive teacher crush. I actually think I loved him, and we had this unspoken bond. My friends used to tell me that they saw him staring at me. We couldn't even say each others ...
A. 14 January 2009: Wow! I know how you feel. Most people would think that things like this are ridiculous, but I think that they fail to realize you can't help who you fall in love with. You did the right thing by not saying anything when you were in his class. Now ... (read in full...)
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