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Should I feel guilty for loving him but getting over him?

Q.   I need to get over a guy and stop feeling guilty. When I was almost 15 pretty much my bestfriend who was 20 asked me out. I was stupid and naïve and said yes. Things progressed out in our relationship and when I was almost 16 I ran away to live with ...

A.   25 April 2011: Let's face it. If it was just love he wanted, he could've been with you without having sex with you. But he wanted sex, he wanted pleasure, he took a risk, not out of love for you, but because he was horny. He did this for himself, not for you, not ... (read in full...)

I am good at online rapport, but struggle at flirting in person

Q.   Just a quickie... I have met a woman I *really* like but I am rubbish at face-to-face flirting! We met eac hother in person, but live about an hour on the train away from one another so although I see her at least three times a month, the majority ...

A.   25 April 2011: Never wait for a woman to ask you out. Even if she is attracted to you, most women are afraid to appear too 'fast' and would rather wait for the guy to approach. It's the man's job to approach. About flirting...I could talk all day on the subje... (read in full...)

She's a vast improvement to my last GF. Am I being paranoid? Worrying that she'll become like my last Gf?

Q.   Hello all, and thank you for reading this in advance. I feel like a rather foolish boyfriend. You see, 2 months ago I ended a rather horrible relationship. My girlfriend treated me like garbage. She put me off for her friends, ignored me, and woul...

A.   25 April 2011: My guess is, she WILL do the same as your previous girlfriend. Unless you make some serious changes to the way you interact with girls. Fast! Look, no girl wants to be with a guy who is desperate for her. In fact, what attracts girls is a g... (read in full...)

Why does he want to pick up women when he has me?

Q.   A friend told me to look at some online forum for guys who feel like they need a little help with picking up women. It was filled with silly pick up lines and ridiculous little mind games. My friend thought it was hilarious but I found it a littl...

A.   25 April 2011: He has taken you for granted. You're no more a challenge. Remember : nothing has value unless you have to work for it. Your only option is to stop making yourself so easily available to him. Get out with your friends, do fun activities, have a l... (read in full...)

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