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How do I change my desperate tendencies regarding men?

Q.   I have realized that when I get into any relationship my main goal is to win the over - and close the deal. This is all mentally obviously I never reveal my intentions out loud but with my bf two years ago he approached me asked me out etc and we ...

A.   9 February 2019: Seems to me your main problem is that you don't love yourself and you don't even enjoy your own company.You rather spend your time with any random guy that shows an interest in you even if you don't have any interest in them.You already realise what ... (read in full...)

I still might have feelings for my best friend , but we’re both with other people! What to do?

Q.   hi, i'll try and keep this short as possible. almost 2 years ago, my best friend (let's call him j) and i both discovered we had feelings for each other, but we couldn't be together as he's with someone already (who's now become another one of my ...

A.   7 February 2019: OK so long distance relationships are not for you,you need someone close to home that you can cuddle and have a connection with go on dates and have your First kiss..J is not the right guy to do that with tho.He has a girlfriend who he is ... (read in full...)

Should I send my crush a Valentine’s card?

Q.   hey everyone, i consider myself a shy-ish person and so talking about any of my crushes is a bit difficult for me. no one has ever known who i've liked or do like. i am trying to open up. anyways, there's someone i like currently, let's ...

A.   7 February 2019: I really feel for you because i suffered from shyness and anxiety in school and the thoughts of telling a boy i liked how i felt would make me feel so sick in my stomach. Valentines is a big occasion when you are a teenager it can be really exciting... (read in full...)

On the one hand her behaviour is awful and she's constantly picking up fights but on the other hand she's very keen on moving in together! What's going on here?

Q.   Hi I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years. We're making plans to move in together soon. Everything was pretty much perfect until about 6 months ago when she started picking fights with me and usually there wasn't a clear reason, nothing I had do...

A.   7 February 2019: This girl is so insecure in your relationship that is why she is picking fights with you.The long distance between you two is obviously affecting her to the point where it could ruin your relationship.She is clearly jealous if you are hanging around ... (read in full...)

He's not as into me as I am into him. What now?

Q.   i probably know what i should do but id still like some advice. I have been 'dating' a guy for 4 month we dont always get to see each other every week due to work and other commitments. We spend time at each others places but we had a massive talk ...

A.   7 February 2019: I was in a similar situation as this years ago.I was seeing this cute fun guy for a few weeks,thought things were going great.I was just enjoying our time together hadnt really started thinking about our future and then he decided to sit me down and ... (read in full...)

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