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He's controlling. He says no more sex until I get a job. Is it wrong for him to give me ultimatums for not having a job?

Q.   Ive been dating a older man for almost 3 years now. im 21 and he's 44. Get ready i could tell stories all day of all the s^^t iv'e been thru with and because him. I love him very much still but not as in love with him as i was before. im s...

A.   7 June 2013: woahhh holy! That's a lot of stuff in one go.. It doesn't sound like it's working... And if you're not even getting sex and he's not sexy and being a dad... LEAVE. My god get a job at starbucks and move in with a friend! Then find a nice guy.... (read in full...)

Do I plan a surprise visit for a 7000km long distance relationship for a few weeks?! HELP!

Q.   Hello, My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We have been going out for a year and a half and he's in the uk due to an injury and I am in Canada for Uni. I have summer break from uni for 3 weeks in august. I just came b...

A.   7 June 2013: Hi oldbag (hehe) If I don't go I will only get to see him at Christmas (maybe). He does have limited cash like you said. Last time I visited we just spent our days together which was lovely, and we also got to do a few activities. If I didn't go ... (read in full...)

Is he pushing me away?/ I know he is pushing me away. How do I go about this?

Q.   Hi, I am getting the feeling my boyfriend is distancing himself from me. We are in a long distance relationship (different continents), UK and Canada. So we already couldn't be more farther apart. I just came back to canada for uni for summe...

A.   28 May 2013: Hi, thanks for the replies. Mariah, I think your input best suits my situation thanks! I don't want to break up because at least he does call I do still have feelings for him. It is best just to focus on school and with my friends, which is what I h... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is attending a wedding, his ex will be there and it's also my birthday. How should I read his request that I not attend the wedding?

Q.   Hi, I am confused about what to do and how to feel... My boyfriend will attend the wedding of a high school classmate. They are not close friends. They haven't seen each other for 2 years. He invited him to his wedding 3 weeks before the weddi...

A.   26 May 2013: That's a bad sign. Especially since the ex gf is there. He wants to be seen as a "free man" possibly? Girl, I'm not going to go so far as to say dump his butt, but really, come on, I celebrate my DOGS birthday haha! It's your birthday. Who gives... (read in full...)

I'm scared to ruin this friendship. But why hasn't he made a move, when he knows I like him?

Q.   I'm friends with a guy at college and I really like him. He knows, but not from me. He doesn't act on this though and he seems to like someone else. I'm so conflicted on what to do. Should I seek advice from his friend? I'm scared to ruin our frie...

A.   19 May 2013: Hi I had the same problem and I am in uni. It's easy for me to say this, because I am not in your shoes, but I have been through this too. My friend gave me the advise to move on at the time and I thought she was being over dramatic. It was the ... (read in full...)

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