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She's selfish and I'm insecure and we're fighting about it

Q.   I am a really unsecured person, I met this girl more than a year ago at a summer camp program and we have been together since the third week we met it has been amazing so far. We got so close together and we know each other so good but the problem ...

A.   30 December 2009: first you have to love yourself before you love someone else. Obviously your girlfriend only loves herself and she lives in a lie.like when she said she will wait for you and end up going out with someone else.I think she still young and she need ... (read in full...)

My husband leaves all family responsibility on me, how can I be happy again?

Q.   i am married now for 2years i was married with two kids i work and he works also, my salary is smaller than his but i pay more bills than he pays and he spends his money in pubs with friends, i feel very bad, i am responsible for all, for my kids...

A.   30 December 2009: It looks like your husband is being irresponsible and selfish.if he makes more money than you do,obviously,he needs to step up and take care of the family.Separate the bills in half and the higher bills give it to him and never never pay his part of ... (read in full...)

How do I forgive the person who raped me when I was a child?

Q.   For years a family member molested me from the age of 4 till I was 12. When I was 9 he started to rape me, I use to be very sore for days and I bled alot and I got infections and couldn't walk properly. I never told anyone as he always threatened ...

A.   28 December 2009: You should CALL the POLICE and have this man arrested.Don't worry about the threat.He already made serious damage to you.That is at least by far the smartest thing to do.Don't let this man get away.Be strong and bring justice to you and prevent this ... (read in full...)

Do some girls just not like oral sex?

Q.   Hello, well i'm with my GF for 6 months, and we love and trust each other, maybe in 2-3 months she will move to my place.We're having sex really often each 2-3 days, but as i noticed she likes blowjobs but dislike when i'm performing it to her(oral ...

A.   28 December 2009: just be happy shes giving you a blow job and she likes it too,unlike my wife. I actually have to convince my wife or treat her to dinner before she even give me some. Your lucky.I think her motto should be its better to give than to received.... (read in full...)

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