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Was a vibrator for Valentine's Day a bad idea to get my man?

Q.   so for Valentine's day i couldn't figure out what to get my man. I was talking with a friend a week or so ago and she suggested i get a vibrator to spice things up a bit and give it to him with a dirty note. even though our sex life is great like it ...

A.   16 February 2011: A vibrator for your boyfriend sends all kinds of messages... not all of them good. He might think, "Does she want me to use this on myself? Does she think I'm too small?" haha. Maybe try get the handcuffs instead. ... (read in full...)

Does this make me a bad person, knowing that he has a gf and still talking to him and wanting to fool ARound with him?

Q.   I work at a fastfood place and my coworker likes me and i like him but he has a gf but he doesn't know that I know he has a gf. He's super cute I gave him my # and I gave him a hug. I wanna get to know him better. I also wanna do "stuff" with him ( ...

A.   12 February 2011: No. Having urges doesn't make you a bad person. Its how you behave that determines if you have integrity or not. Everyone feels attracted to someone who is "taken" from time to time. But according to the current laws of society it is not acceptab... (read in full...)

If a girl has been with a big guy how does she feel about sleeping with a smaller man?

Q.   Hello everyone i have a question mostly for the girls but i dont mind having different point of vues. if there is a girl who is used to have sex with Big guys ( if you know what i mean ) . how would she feel about sleeping with an average size guy...

A.   12 February 2011: I'm not a girl, but I can relate to how you feel dude. I'm a bit older now, but when I was younger I had the same insecurities as you due to having an "average" size penis. For what it's worth I can tell you that us guys build this into ... (read in full...)

Ladies: How do you feel about your highshool sweetheart if you aren't married to him now.

Q.   I've been dealing with some insecurities about my wife's ex - the guy she dated in high school. She lost her virginity to him and by all accounts he was the love of her life until it ended. I also know that she didn't want to end it and was prett...

A.   27 January 2011: Thanks everyone. I feel a bit better now. :)... (read in full...)

Ladies: How do you feel about your highshool sweetheart if you aren't married to him now.

Q.   I've been dealing with some insecurities about my wife's ex - the guy she dated in high school. She lost her virginity to him and by all accounts he was the love of her life until it ended. I also know that she didn't want to end it and was prett...

A.   25 January 2011: Thanks for all the great replies. It does help put things in perspective a little. The email did strike me as worrisome and I told her I regarded it as a betrayal of trust. She acknowledged that and agreed that I had cause to be upset. There... (read in full...)

Ladies: How do you feel about your highshool sweetheart if you aren't married to him now.

Q.   I've been dealing with some insecurities about my wife's ex - the guy she dated in high school. She lost her virginity to him and by all accounts he was the love of her life until it ended. I also know that she didn't want to end it and was prett...

A.   25 January 2011: Thanks Annalisa. I realize this is more about me than it is about her. Lately, I've been battling low self-esteem (job/career stuff to blame) and I guess I'm projecting a bit. Funny thing is that when I went snooping I actually knew I would be ... (read in full...)

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