Split up with my partner but we still keep ending up in bed! I can't go on like this
Q. PLEASE HELP! I was with my partner for 9 1/2 years when last july he decided he wanted to split up and he moved out. We had problems but as always he did not talk to me about his feelings and decisions and it came as a shock. I found the break up...
A. 14 December 2005:
Then don't go on "like this". No one says that you have to stop loving him... but you will never be happy if loving him costs you your self respect (and what's more he won't love you if you don't have self-respect).
So get your priorit... (read in full...)
No explanation, and he blanks me when I see him. What happened?
Q. Hi I was seeing a man 10 years my junior for 2 and 1/2 years. We were amazingly in love, couldn't bear to be apart but he started wanting to be "free", i.e see other women, so we split up but remained very close friends, still constantly in each ...
A. 14 December 2005: I have two words for you. No Contact. Completely cease and desist any attempt to contact him and spend some time in serious self reflection and evaluation. If he is going to come back to you - you will need to have done the serious soul ... (read in full...)
Still carrying a torch for my 9-years-ago ex. Should I try to contact him one more time?
Q. I came to live in Switzerland 11 years ago because of a man that I loved. I was very young at the time we got together (20 years old). He was the same age as me. We stayed together for 2 years and then he told me he wanted to marry me. I just ...
A. 14 December 2005:
I think that you should contact him and let him know what you have told the anonymous public here at Ask Cupid. Tell him that you were too young when you turned down his marriage proposal, that you have never met anyone you cared for as much... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is so clingy and insecure it's leaving me at breaking point!
Q. Although she really does'nt need to be, my girlfriend is very insecure. She knows it too, but this hasn't changed over the 8 years that we've been together. We are definately still in love, but pointless arguements happen all the time, which make us ...
A. 14 December 2005: Perhaps your girlfriend is insecure because you are so non-committal. You claim to love her so how about being pro-active in the area of love. Have a talk with her to find out what it provides to her to be physically attached. Is she needing you ... (read in full...)
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