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Hiya, i'm here cause i get bored and my friends say im a good therapist. My answers may not be the onr you want but they are my thoughts and feelings and what i believe. i pretty much will tell you flat out what i think and sometimes that becomes a problem for me, but oh well youll learn to love itt. I am not saying where i live. I love going to church! me and God are tight yo!(: i strongly dislike people who dont know what theyre talking about. it makes me frustrated! im single, straight, likes a guy, but not exactly looking! i love ramen noodles, and i think imma go eat me somee:)

Is love supposed to hurt?

Q.   I need some major advise i am so confused i wonder at times is love suppose to hurt? i have two daughters with two different men and the last man was almost perfect except for the fact that he didnt work..he was so nice understanding and romantic ...

A.   31 January 2010: Love does hurt sweetie. it only hurts so you know who the true love of your life is. Hhe will not hurt you or cause pain:) ... (read in full...)

My husband has touched my daughter... how do I deal with it?

Q.   My daughter who is 19 has suffered from depression for the past 3 years, she is on tablets and struggles to sleep. I have tried to talk to her to help her to try find out why. She finally opened up to her CPN at the end of november, she told them ...

A.   31 January 2010: Honestly, this may be a answer you dont wanna her but, only time can heal this. I agree, keep your children away from the man. and support your daughter by just being there when she needs you. And yes it is normal to worry about yoour husband, he ... (read in full...)

Why do I feel naked all the time?

Q.   i would like to ask why do i feel to be naked all the time. i dont like to wear cloths and even if i wear cloths. i dont wear the bra and panties(in short inner garments)is it okay not wearing bra bcos i heared if we dont the shape of the breast ...

A.   31 January 2010: Well obviously, you feel naked cause you arent wearing clothes! :) haha but wear a bra and panties and clothes that cover up your body and youll feel like youre wearing clothes ! :)... (read in full...)

I'm regretting what I did to my sister when we were younger, what am I supposed to do?

Q.   ok, this is strange one. what have i done!! this is even weird and awkward for me to type but... for years ive been really anxious and worried about what happened to me and my sister when we were young. i was about 12 and she about 6. we played ...

A.   31 January 2010: Well, its not like you had sex or anything and at that age you are just going through pueberty so its naturaul to be curious. so if its causeing you burden,(getting religious here! lol) then pray and ask god to forgive you. That always helps me, and ... (read in full...)

I promised my parents I wouldn't kiss anybody until I was married! Is this stupid?

Q.   well, i know this sounds stupid. but when i was like 5ish i pinky promised my parents i wouldnt kiss anyone till i was married. i am a christian, and proud(: but i kinda think its stupid.what do you think about this. is it stuupid? my friend told me ...

A.   31 January 2010: to every one, no i didnt not say kissing was against my christian values, and a guy that just wants a girl to kiss her is not the kinda guys i like, nor will be the ones i date. so just dont go there. and to another answer, i wouldnt marry a guy ... (read in full...)

I promised my parents I wouldn't kiss anybody until I was married! Is this stupid?

Q.   well, i know this sounds stupid. but when i was like 5ish i pinky promised my parents i wouldnt kiss anyone till i was married. i am a christian, and proud(: but i kinda think its stupid.what do you think about this. is it stuupid? my friend told me ...

A.   31 January 2010: Well, you see. im like agreeing with my parents because i want that kiss to be special, like and not waste it on worthless boys. and i know a pinky promise was stupid but i have never broken a pinky promise, its weird. lol and to celiaaletta whats ... (read in full...)

Does this mean I'm gay?

Q.   I am currently in a relationship and have bin with my partner for 3yrs but, if I were to masturbate, I often think about women. I am totally straight, well atleast I think I am but I often say oh, wow she's really pretty. Does this mean that I am ...

A.   30 January 2010: If you think a girls pretty, that doesnt make you gay. im whole heartedly straight and i still tell girls theyre pretty or tell my friends that another girl is pretty. thats how girls are they admire the beauty. and as for the masterbation thing, i ... (read in full...)

I had unprotected sex and now I am 3 days late.

Q.   okay I'm goin krazy !!!! My cyle has been commin dwn on da 27 of every month. A day befo my cycle wuz suppose 2 come I got on Adepix and I started walkin okay kool only 1 thing where n hell is my CYCLE !!!!! it wuz suppose 2 come dwn Wed and now ...

A.   30 January 2010: just to be safe(if you dont wanna be prego) take that one pill "plan b" thats on that comercial. you dont need a prescription if youre over 17. and plus its okay to have one irregular period in your life hunn. (:... (read in full...)

My ex just wont take a hint!

Q.   Well, i broke up with this guy because i didnt like him as much any more(actually he got boring lol) but he still thinks i like him and like stares, flirts, and talks about these weird subjects with me. its so annoying! at my school dance he came up ...

A.   30 January 2010: thank you, ive tried ignoring him. he just still annoys me! and i told him not to tickle me, and he hasnt since the dance (: thanks again.... (read in full...)

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