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I got drunk and kissed a guy from work, do I tell my boyfriend?

Q.   Hi there... Well basically I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and I really love him. We were best friends for about 3 years before we got together. Everything is great now but the start of the relationship was a bit awkward r...

A.   11 January 2010: I never liked the "I was drunk" reason for fooling around with someone else. I've heard that myself and what goes through my head is "well, what happens when you get drunk next time?". It should not be an excuse. That being said, we ALL make mis... (read in full...)

Should I end my marriage due to my wife cheating for a year whilst denying it all that time...

Q.   I have been married for 10 years and we have one 9 year old child. My wife is 8 years my junior, she is 42. I first suspected my wife cheating over a year ago based on the usual e.g., not answering the phone when I am around and sleeping with the ...

A.   11 January 2010: Im very sorry to hear about your situation. After going through something like this, i would find it hard to trust that person again. If you honestly think she is sincere and can change then i'd say work on things. Otherwise, if you cant get past ... (read in full...)

He doesn't want me to masturbate when he's not in the mood for sex!

Q.   Hi all, I am having a problem. I am 42 years old and since I can remember I loved making love especially oral sex at least once a day. As a result of having a high sex drive I have loss a lot of sleep and have had numerous arguments with m...

A.   23 November 2009: I agree with the other respondents. You should be allowed to masturbate whenever you want. If he isnt into it, then you should take care of business on your own terms. Now, if this is something that is affecting your sex life with him that is ... (read in full...)

I can't trust that my boyfriend doesn't fantasise about other girls, how do I stop worrying?

Q.   Ok i need advice and help - especially from the males. I can't afford therapy! I've had a boyfriend for over a year now, and no matter HOW much i read, or WHAT i tell myself, i CANNOT get my head around the issue of porn and fantasizing abou...

A.   23 November 2009: All men and women fantasize about others. It's a natural thing. When you watch a TV commercial, or read the latest People magazine, or see a billboard with an attractive person on it - it happens. It doesn't mean he wants to cheat on you. If you're ... (read in full...)

For the men out there: Does seeing images of half naked men make you feel insecure? How does it affect your self-esteem?

Q.   For the guys only: A lot of women write on this site that thier significant other views porn and it makes them feel insecure as the porn stars are well endowed with fake boobs. In addition, the women write they are inundated by the media with i...

A.   23 November 2009: It doesnt bother me to see other men. If im watching porn and i see a big penis...thats not what im paying attention to, so I dont really care. If my gf is enjoying seeing another man who is in good shape it doesn't bother me either. Thats normal ... (read in full...)

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