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Q.   So I just started seeing this girl and I can't really read whats going on in her head and I'm not really sure where to expect things to go. We've gone out on 3 dates so far, due to logistics we can only see each other on the weekends, I've s...

A.   28 November 2009: Okay so we became physical. She spent the night. I still don't feel comfortable talking to her about intimate stuff. This is sooo weird. I'm also not 100% certain she was a virgin because she sorta had a move or two in bed. Is it wrong if I'm u... (read in full...)

I just found out he was released a week ago and I'm scared!

Q.   I'm 33 yr old single mother of 3 boys.I been threw 7 yrs of a bad marriage divorced 10 yrs now.It made me stronge and cold. My problem is i dated a guy for 3 yrs,we broke up and he went nuts.One nite he went crazy trying to find me back and forth he ...

A.   7 October 2009: I second all of what the other posters said. An amazing confidence booster is always having a weapon available for home defense. The Mossberg 500 is an affordable shotgun for home defense, go for a 20 gauge if you can't handle a 12ga. I stro... (read in full...)

Do I pick up the next time he calls?

Q.   HELLO ! everyone. Ok I have been talking to a guy for about a month now we've only went out once but we've had sex twice. He has a kid and a demanding job. I don't really see him and hardly talk to him. But everytime he time he hits me up I pick up ...

A.   7 October 2009: Pickup the phone. I'm one for not playing games, it keep things simple. ... (read in full...)

He's accepted a job that will keep him away from home for 4 weeks at a time; I'm afraid he'll look at porn while he's gone

Q.   My husband recently accepted a job (without my opinion) that will keep him away for 30 days at a time versus coming home every 2 weeks as he did before. He works on a riverboat with men only and with this new job, I will only see him for a total of ...

A.   7 October 2009: Porn should really be the least of your concerns. Soldiers go on 18 month deployments. Yes it ruins marriages but the majority of spouses stay faithful waiting for their love one to return. 4 weeks seems like nothing now I hope. Work on your ... (read in full...)

We had an argument, and he's threatening to go back to cutting. Help!

Q.   Please help me.. My boyfriend and I have a strong relationship, and I love him to death. He is kinda half-emo, and he's cut himself before. I don't want it to happen again.. We got in an argument and he's threatening to cut himself this Fri...

A.   7 October 2009: Is he threating to cut himself over your argument or is it a call for help? Why would he plan it a couple days out? Anyhow someone who is self abusive needed professional help. No matter what you tell yourself you can't help him, neither can his ... (read in full...)

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