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Why does my boyfriend not want oral sex?
Q. Do guys love oral sex? Why does my bf does not want me to give him oral? we never did it but am really looking forward to it...
A. 2 November 2010: With all due respect to the anonymous female reader's response, it sounds like your bf has a hang-up, he's not making a conscious choice based on reason or based on his biology. To get to where you want to go, you'll have to desensitize him over a ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend not want oral sex?
Q. Do guys love oral sex? Why does my bf does not want me to give him oral? we never did it but am really looking forward to it...
A. 2 November 2010: Guys dream about oral sex! It's partly why men watch porn. However, we live in a prudish world where many people honestly believe that sex other than to procreate is filthy and sinful. Those notions of sex, in this case oral, as being dirty get ... (read in full...)
Anal or vaginal?
Q. What feels better for either the male or female? Anal or vaginal sex? My boyfriend and i tried anal before vaginal and now i am afraid that when we have vaginal sex it won't feel as good for him. We are conserving our vaginal virginity for after ...
A. 2 November 2010: From the male standpoint, I'll say vaginal. But look, this is like asking what feels better, a vagina or a mouth, or a hand. It feels good but it's different.... (read in full...)
Husband of 27 years regrets that he didn't have sex with other women!
Q. I have been married for 27 years and a while ago my husband told me that the biggest regret of his life was that he hadn't had sex with more women. He had always lead me to believe that he had only been with me, but during this odd conversation I ...
A. 1 November 2010: I'm 52, been married for 25 years, and I suspect that what your husband is looking for, maybe unconsciously, is more intimacy - with YOU. By intimacy, I mean that he wants "wilder" sex with you - more BJs, more HJs, more licking, tongueing, sucking, ... (read in full...)
How do we talk about sex openly without the shyness?
Q. Hey friends.. I know this is weird..but can anyone help me to fix this problem? I saw my bf looking at my breasts. We were sitting close to each other and i was telling him about something looking somewhere else. As i turned my head towards ...
A. 1 November 2010: Today, I'm a middle aged man, so maybe I'm not the right person to post an answer. BUT, when I was 17, good Lord was I shy about sex. Mostly, I was afraid of doing something wrong and getting rejected.
If I were in your shoes? Take a really s... (read in full...)
My first sexual relationship and I cannot orgasm with her!
Q. I have been in a relationship (my first sexually active one) for 1 year and a few months now and my girlfriend has still not been able to give me an orgasm. I have narrowed this down to these possibilities 1. Watching porn too often (every day...
A. 1 November 2010: Absolutely drop the porn. Also, if you always masturbate the same way, change your routine. Always use your right hand? Make yourself use your left hand. Use one particular lubricant? Change it often. Use a tight grip on yourself while jerking? ... (read in full...)
If he cant orgasm through a hand job, what will happen when we have sex?
Q. hi, well i have a question for guys i dont know what to think, my boyfriend and me we dont have sex but we try hand job he has see me naked and i think he likes because he always has an erection when he see me naked or when he touch me but he never ...
A. 1 November 2010: If he hasn't come after 10-15 minutes, then he's not getting enough stimulation to put him over the edge. Couple of things you can try. First, make sure you're not using so much oil that he can't feel anything. Start with a little, you can always ... (read in full...)
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