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I know she loves me, but the lack of intimacy is eating at me.

Q.   My story is way too long so I will do all I can to exercise brevity as much as possible. My wife and I where married for 24 years before she decided that life for her was horrible and always has been, she just didn't know it until a counselo...

A.   7 August 2008: I guess in my attempt to be as brief as possible, I left out some pertinent details. Prior to 9/11 everything was great. Friends were envious of our marriage. I had a great management position with a telecommunications company and there was no i... (read in full...)

Should I be worried about my boyfriend's trip?

Q.   Well I'll start by saying that my boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years and we've had our share of arguments, but we've both pretty much always been on the same page. It's a serious relationship and we're both aiming towards ...

A.   6 August 2008: I would like to say that I see good things that could come out of this situation, but there really aren't any. First, I cannot measure the love, admiration, and respect he has for you if he wanted to go spend time with another woman and live with ... (read in full...)

My husband believed calomnious rumours about me having an affair - should I ask him to give us a second chance after he has presented me to his new woman?

Q.   Hey, to cut a long story short I’ll make my situation straight to the point. I'm married 1 kid she's 1 years old, so me and my husband got along like really well no problems or anything, then there came a period of time where one day after the other ...

A.   6 August 2008: At this point you really need to ask yourself if he is what you really want. He didn't believe you when you told him the truth, he left you over the lies of someone else, and you'd have to ask yourself would he ever really trust you. Obviously he ... (read in full...)

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