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Attracted to students as a teacher. Help!

Q.   I'm a secondary school teacher 11-18 and always find myself attracted to students. I'm 28 and married. I find myself attracted to the older students and sometimes thinking what the younger students will grow up to look like. I have never acted on ...

A.   20 November 2011: I think if we go back to your first statement; "I'm a secondary school teacher 11-18 and always find myself attracted to students." we have the underlying issue you are talking about. You need to be more honest with yourself. The word "always... (read in full...)

We started out great, then the fighting started and now I don't know what we are!

Q.   I met this girl a few weeks back and we had an instant connection. Things moved very quickly and rapidly and we spent practically every day together from there on out. The first two weeks were incredible. We got along amazing! Then we hit this brick ...

A.   20 November 2011: It sounds like pursuing a relationship will lead to similar arguments and fighting in future - it took only a matter of weeks for the fights to crop up this time. Why did you fight I wonder? I mean, was it really over the things commented on in ... (read in full...)

I'm not sure if I want to wait till marriage to have sex now!

Q.   I'm 19, going on 20, and my boyfriend is 20. Now, I'm the kind of girl that always believed in the "no sex before marriage" rule, and pretty much raised to believe sex is a taboo thing that is only for married couples, to make babies. But recently ...

A.   20 November 2011: It seems to me you are both keen to explore normal human urges - to have sex, and sexual pleasure together. I think it would be more wrong to marry simply to feel ok about having sex. If you want to have sex and enjoy each other's body's, then... (read in full...)

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