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Is it wrong to date someone just for fun?

Q.   So here’s my story. I’ve always kind of been a sap for relationships and I tend to over think things. I’m an ENFP and I’m kind of at a cross road in my life. I’ve never really liked to just jump into relationships with people or dating. I don’t feel ...

A.   8 May 2018: INTJ here - couldn't resist when i saw ENFP :)! First of all kudos to you - you are one of the growing rare species of humans left in this world who hold onto values, morals and serious commitments. That makes you a treasure now doesn't it? I... (read in full...)

My boyfriend says it’s time for me to give him my virginity!

Q.   My boyfriend tell me it's time to give your virginity I cannot wait it's has been 10 months we are together I know he is my boyfriend and has the right but am scared of my parent if one day know about it ?? my boyfriend don't have a good job my ...

A.   8 May 2018: Looks like you love him more than he loves you. You are willing to give up something that is yours to a man who has nothing to give up for you. First of all when a man truly loves you, he will wait eagerly for the time when he can proudly ... (read in full...)

He love-bombed me but now has cut ties! Should I hold out hope?

Q.   I have recently started seeing a guy, who suffers with depression, which ive supported as much as i can. Our relationship has been moving very quickly and he recently dropped the love bomb, involved me deeply with his friends and family but He has ...

A.   8 May 2018: Depression does awful things to a person's mind and spirit. They can face sudden highs and lows. At times they will get clingy to the source of their happiness and at other times they will reject that source even due to a sense of guilt or other ... (read in full...)

What would a woman feel if a man cried during marriage proposal?

Q.   Dear Aunts, after almost 10 years in a relationship with my girlfriend, I proposed to her this past weekend. I did not planed to cry or anything, but as soon as I was asking her to be my wife, y started crying and I couldn't stop. I really felt bad ...

A.   8 May 2018: Too few men know how to weep truly. They think it is manly to not weep - yet many strong men weep. To weep during a particularly emotionally charged moment shows that you are a well-balanced man who has learnt to express your feelings. Don't be ... (read in full...)

Anyone else developed a conscience when they were about to start a FWB with a married person?

Q.   Ok so I have been single over 6 years, I like being single, I have no one to answer too. But it's been a long time intimately just over 2 years! So I'm on a dating site, not looking for a quick bunk up but maybe friendship or fwb. I met this bloke ...

A.   8 May 2018: Developing a conscience and keeping it clean and sharp is a good thing! And the fact that it is pricking you tells you that something is way off - listen to it. It will guard you and keep you from harm. Married men may be honest with you about the ... (read in full...)

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