Why am I making all the efforts when he should be begging for my forgiveness?
Q. Hi guys, straight to the point. I've been with my bf for nearly three years now. The relationship in whole has been a pretty good one, no real complaints. Then about 2 months ago a new girl started with him in work, he said he didnt really speak to ...
A. 4 December 2011: some harsh comments but well meaning for you above me there..
i feel for you. i know it sucks. i have an opinion that he didnt cheat to kiss her wile u were split. but i agree that emotionally he was with her on somelevel before the split.
bo... (read in full...)
Having an affair...
Q. If you have an affair, and then she goes cold, is it guilt on her part of just trying to protect her feelings from becoming deep love that will force her to decide on quitting her relationship?...
A. 1 April 2011: TWO years later - an update.
I pulled back, i dissapeared. i got on with my life as best i could..
it REALLY hurt
all your comments (except the obvious one 'Stop grasping for straws and get on with the work of properly ending your mar... (read in full...)
She likes porn now... so what's the problem???
Q. 9m relationship - fantastic - my girl shes hotttt, crazy about me (brings a long stem rose to the airport), very very hot (did i say that lol - 50kg, great ass, cute waiste, etc) loves to dance, (when im with her), just a bubbly vivacious girl (and ...
A. 1 April 2011: thank you for your comments, we have only watched porn 'together' and the frequency is not often, so thankfully there is no issue here -... (read in full...)
She likes porn now... so what's the problem???
Q. 9m relationship - fantastic - my girl shes hotttt, crazy about me (brings a long stem rose to the airport), very very hot (did i say that lol - 50kg, great ass, cute waiste, etc) loves to dance, (when im with her), just a bubbly vivacious girl (and ...
A. 7 October 2010: great replys very good observations
(re my porn, I have looked at
porn of course and use it occasionally
when I'm not in a relationship
when compared to a real relationship/sexual
experience however I just find it dangerous
and a big "gen... (read in full...)
Having an affair...
Q. If you have an affair, and then she goes cold, is it guilt on her part of just trying to protect her feelings from becoming deep love that will force her to decide on quitting her relationship?...
A. 27 May 2009: what if, the i love yous just decreased/etc but the condom was brushed aside by her? - signifies a deeper level of intimacy no? (pill is in use , plus both std free)
(at the same time as a quivering declaration 5 hrs later..'thats the best s&x ever... (read in full...)
Having an affair...
Q. If you have an affair, and then she goes cold, is it guilt on her part of just trying to protect her feelings from becoming deep love that will force her to decide on quitting her relationship?...
A. 25 May 2009: ok so..
in march and april it was MUCH better.. in "some" ways.
the s*x was marathon grade stuff.. 4 or 5 hr sessions... really really connected.
sadly tho.. she has pulled back a LOT on the verbal stuff (iloveyou, i missyou, etc) ..and as... (read in full...)
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