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How do I just get over it? I''m totally distraught and in a dark place.

Q.   Ok so after the phone call on saturday i made to my ex to ask for second chance he pretty much said no. I was devastated. I sent him an email the next day to say that i tried my best and that he didn't want to try and that i understood that hes ...

A.   5 April 2008: He could be trying to help you out with your job search to make up for the fact that he cannot give you the relationship you want with him. I'm sure he cares for you on some level (but not the level you want) and feels guilty that you are sad about ... (read in full...)

How to resist temptation of contacting or responding to an ex.

Q.   Hello. I've written here before asking a question about how to get over a breakup. That was back in September. I definitely got through the break up, and moved on and found happiness within myself. But not completely. Currently I am...

A.   24 March 2008: Thanks. I doubt he'll try anything further because I haven't given him the signal. He seems to only initiate after I've signaled that his behavior is acceptable to me (by responding to his texts or emails). He doesn't have either the balls or the ... (read in full...)

How to resist temptation of contacting or responding to an ex.

Q.   Hello. I've written here before asking a question about how to get over a breakup. That was back in September. I definitely got through the break up, and moved on and found happiness within myself. But not completely. Currently I am...

A.   21 March 2008: Hi - it's me the original author of this question. I'm doing ok. I haven't initiated any contact since I posted the question. He initiated contact via text at about 11pm on St. Patrick's Day. He didn't say anything, just "Good St. Patty's Day?" ... (read in full...)

How to resist temptation of contacting or responding to an ex.

Q.   Hello. I've written here before asking a question about how to get over a breakup. That was back in September. I definitely got through the break up, and moved on and found happiness within myself. But not completely. Currently I am...

A.   16 March 2008: Thanks everyone for your replies. I'm feeling a lot better. I'm definitely going to re-read your replies when I feel weak the next time. It's going to help me be strong! ... (read in full...)

How to resist temptation of contacting or responding to an ex.

Q.   Hello. I've written here before asking a question about how to get over a breakup. That was back in September. I definitely got through the break up, and moved on and found happiness within myself. But not completely. Currently I am...

A.   15 March 2008: Thank you - this is good advice. It's hard for me to accept that he does not care for me, but I believe that this is true - he does NOT care for me. If he did, he'd treat me with more respect. I've got to get permanently past this. I will pra... (read in full...)

I need help healing and getting through this breakup

Q.   Need help healing - my question is mainly - how can I get through this "breakup"? Background follows: I just ended a casual relationship with a guy that I have had a friendship/flirtship with for over a year. We work at the same company. For th...

A.   26 January 2008: Hello - thanks for your advice! It was difficult, but I am finally over him. I've reached the point where I don't feel an attraction to him when I see and speak with him. He definitely wasn't the guy for me. I learned a lot from the experience ... (read in full...)

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