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How do I stop being needy and clingy? I constantly need reassurances. Any good tips?

Q.   How do I stop being needy and clingy? I am easily hurt and easily disappointed and I constantly need reassurance and unconditional love. I know unconditional love is practically non existent but I need it. If I don't get it I start to feel depressed ...

A.   24 April 2010: wow to see that this all started with a brave young lady to step forward for help in 2006 and its now 2010, 4 years later and yet we are still running into this exact issue. It really shows that nobody is alone in any of this men and women expirence ... (read in full...)

Does he still love me, Do I still make him feel great? please help !

Q.   My boyfreind and I have been together for just over a year. We had our honeymoon stage and roughly around 5 months things started to get a bit confusing, for one reason or another i started asking him all sorts of questions that I was not even ...

A.   24 April 2010: Ok i probubly should have clarified the calling name part, i was very vaige, he is NOT verbal abussive, he calls me names like cry baby, and askes why im whinning, for me when i feel that hes being cold ill ask him those questions and hell say im ... (read in full...)

Wife constantly text messaging!

Q.   My wife and I have been married for almost 5 years, and we have what I think is a mostly healthy relationship. Lately however, she is constantly sending or reading text messages. When we go out to eat, even with our friends, throughout the entire ...

A.   24 April 2010: well first i have to ask if you know who she is sending these text messages to ? Freinds, family? or is she hiding it from you ? yes text messeging can be very addictive once started. But somehow you have to try to break that cycle with her, you... (read in full...)

I just had a horrible "first time", or what should have been. I'm too hurt to move on, what do I do?

Q.   "Wow, hun...You're so much smaller than my ex...I'm sorry." That's what she told me when we were just about to...yeah Then she got up, apologized, and left quietly. I felt so terrible after, I actually cried lol. We don't see each other anymore. ...

A.   24 April 2010: OK. first of all size does not really matter at all ! she might have gotten scared and used that as an excuse. i see that you are still very young and not all girls and guys are ready for this type of thing, especially if its YOUR FIRST. I su... (read in full...)

Can I meet the right woman after college?

Q.   I am a 22 year old college senior who is graduating in less than a month. I just got out of a 2 year relationship with a girl who goes to my college who supposedly decided that she never loved me, a few months before I was going to propose to her. ...

A.   24 April 2010: I definatly see that there is hope for you. Number one if you are looking for marriage and are comming out to be desperate then you will have a hard time getting a ring on a girls finger. Take your time, and they are right the right one will come ... (read in full...)

Confused and hurt with a holiday on the way!

Q.   Hey everyone, My girlfriend and i have been together for over 2 and a half years and its basically both of our's first proper relationship... We had booked a holiday around 3 months ago and fully paid it off together for our first holiday together...

A.   24 April 2010: Hi. Well it sounds like to me that you are stuck in a bubble. From a girls point of view she is clearly not interested. If she is refusing to go on a holiday with you, that shows 1)- that she does not want to lead you on in thinking that there might ... (read in full...)

Is this rape? Should I forgive him?

Q.   I met this guy 8 years ago, I was madly in love with him however, it turned out he was gay! it took me a couple of years to get over him. I have then moved on with my life and moved into a differnt province. I lost touch with him about 5 years ago. ...

A.   24 April 2010: I would like to thank everyone who replied to my traumatic insident 2 years ago, it was defiantly a struggle to get over this hump and im still working on it, it wasnt easy but thank you to all who have helped me through this ...... (read in full...)

Is this rape? Should I forgive him?

Q.   I met this guy 8 years ago, I was madly in love with him however, it turned out he was gay! it took me a couple of years to get over him. I have then moved on with my life and moved into a differnt province. I lost touch with him about 5 years ago. ...

A.   8 January 2008: ok now this guy just called me i didnt asnwer but he left a message saying he was just calling to talk and to see how i was doing. argh im so stuck i dont know what to do or think im so confused ive never been this confused about anything... (read in full...)

Is this rape? Should I forgive him?

Q.   I met this guy 8 years ago, I was madly in love with him however, it turned out he was gay! it took me a couple of years to get over him. I have then moved on with my life and moved into a differnt province. I lost touch with him about 5 years ago. ...

A.   8 January 2008: Thanks everyone! for taking the time to read my problem here! I'm so confused and I dont know why, why cant I see it as being rape? I keep thinkign what if he was telling the truth? I dont know what to consider it!. I feel so lost!... (read in full...)

Is this rape? Should I forgive him?

Q.   I met this guy 8 years ago, I was madly in love with him however, it turned out he was gay! it took me a couple of years to get over him. I have then moved on with my life and moved into a differnt province. I lost touch with him about 5 years ago. ...

A.   7 January 2008: Thank you to everyone who replied to my question. To those who asked why I did not go to the police was becuse the next day and until this day I feel that perhaps he wasn't clear as to what he was doing as well, I GUESS i want to believe that. I ... (read in full...)

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