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Custody while having an absent parent?

Q.   hi, i live in ohio. my son's father has not seen him since 3-26-06. the last time he saw him he took him to his house instead of to the bowling alley where he said he was going(i let his girlfriend, now his wife pick him up) when i sent my sister to ...

A.   17 December 2008: Yep, definetly talk to a lawyer. I believe it is called abandondment if the Ex is not in the picture for so long. I believe you have a pretty good chance to terminate his rights if he has not shown any contact or support for the child in the last 3 ... (read in full...)

I'm just confused now and have some mixed messages that I guess I need to sort out.

Q.   Hi, Looking for some help on this. Hopefully someone can give me some ideas or help. Around 14 years ago I was dating a guy on and off. We met shortly after I had come out of a long term relationship. I liked him but my mind was still very m...

A.   17 December 2008: Maybe he is just scared. Maybe you two have grown as "friends" and he does'nt want to lose that relationship. Perhaps, you two should remain friends and nothing more. Who knows what the future can bring. Just be there for each other. Don't let... (read in full...)

I'm doing a senior project about advice... Any help would be appreciated.

Q.   Hey I'm Hillary, I'm on here because I'm doing a senior project about advice and I heard of this site from a friend and thought that it would be a good idea to get me started. I'm trying to help people out and get their feedback to write my paper. ...

A.   17 December 2008: Some people have experienced things first hand, in these cases, they can provide the best help. When a person has overcome a challenge or struggle in life, their feedback is perhaps the most valuable information a person can get. Howev... (read in full...)

My husband told his ex he only stays with me for our child, I don't know what to do...

Q.   Okay I read my husbands messenger conversations, and well he told his ex that he was no longer attracted to me and the only reason he wont leave me is because of 2 year old. I confronted him and he told me that he was just being a jerk and it was ...

A.   10 December 2008: This really touched home with me. Recently, my husband did something very simialr to me. He talks to his Ex on the phone and takes care of her little 7 year old daughter. He speaks to his Ex as if she is a "Great Friend." One day I was talking ... (read in full...)

My husband is still taking care of his ex's daughter

Q.   My Husband is lying! My husband and I have been together for 2 years. We have a beautiful 7 month old daughter. (I have 3 children from previous relationship) The problem lies within his past relationship with another woman. He started dating t...

A.   17 November 2008: I am VERY upset that my husband did not tell me about the true relationship regarding this little girl. I tell him EVERYTHING! He knows about my worst faults, my regrets, and this discussion we are having. I feel betrayed that I had to find out this ... (read in full...)

My husband is still taking care of his ex's daughter

Q.   My Husband is lying! My husband and I have been together for 2 years. We have a beautiful 7 month old daughter. (I have 3 children from previous relationship) The problem lies within his past relationship with another woman. He started dating t...

A.   16 November 2008: Deejuliet, Thank you for your comments and help. I originally posted my thoughts with a lot of anger and hurt. But having input from others has helped me clear my head a lot. This has been an ongoing issue for me and my husband for the last 2 mont... (read in full...)

My husband is still taking care of his ex's daughter

Q.   My Husband is lying! My husband and I have been together for 2 years. We have a beautiful 7 month old daughter. (I have 3 children from previous relationship) The problem lies within his past relationship with another woman. He started dating t...

A.   14 November 2008: Deejuliet, you are very articulate and have a good sense of coming at this issue from all sides. I really appreciate your input. You have really hit the nail on the head with a couple of issues regarding my changed feelings. This little girl does ... (read in full...)

My husband is still taking care of his ex's daughter

Q.   My Husband is lying! My husband and I have been together for 2 years. We have a beautiful 7 month old daughter. (I have 3 children from previous relationship) The problem lies within his past relationship with another woman. He started dating t...

A.   13 November 2008: I left out some very important info. Recently, we found out that this little girl and her mother, brother, sister, etc. are related to me and my children. We are all cousins. We are second cousins. So instead of being step-siblings, I think it is ... (read in full...)

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