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He says he needs his space and it hurts, as I'm not used to it

Q.   My boyfriend and i are going out for almost two years and we got really serious! we're madly in love with each other but for the past two weeks he has been busy and im not getting to spend as much time as i want with him! suddenly, we became distant ...

A.   24 June 2007: The only thing you can do is to give him space? I can only imagine that right now you are full of every different emotion possible, but to keep calling or as you said acting stupid right now will only make matters worse. I do think how ever you ... (read in full...)

I'd lose so much if I ended my relationship but I don't love him anymore

Q.   Ive been with my boyfriend for 8 years (since I was 18) and we've lived together for 5 years. I feel like we have drifted apart emotionally and sexually, and although we still care for each other, I dont think we love each other anymore. It just ...

A.   24 June 2007: It sounds like your stuck in a very awkward situation! But if you care for this guy I do think he does have the right to know. You have been together for 8 years, which is quite some time, and it sounds like even though as you say you have drifted ... (read in full...)

Husband looks at porn and we've not had sex for 8 months... how can I even contemplate a physical relationship with someone i consider to be a pervert?

Q.   I haven't had sex with my husband for nearly 8 months. I went off sex quite a few years ago mainly because i had no confidence and felt that my husband was always criticising me. I lost confidence in everything, comfort eating and making every ...

A.   6 June 2007: It must be so hurtful when your husband who is supposed to love you continually puts you down. This then has a huge impact on your self-confidence and esteem, so no wonder you don’t want to have sex? Then to go on to find that he is looking at po... (read in full...)

Why does he lie so much?

Q.   I have been with my guy for 3.5 years. We've had problems and are working through them. The thing is he lies about everything! Lying is my pet peeve, he knows it, but keeps doing it. I give him no reason to lie, but he just won't stop. His stories ...

A.   6 June 2007: Have you ever thought of relationship counselling, it would definitely give you a bigger insight into what make your partner lie? Because he could be doing it for a number of reasons. One of the reasons could be low self-esteem, he may think that he ... (read in full...)

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