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I need to hear those three words

Q.   Hi everyone, I am 23 yrs old and I have a new bf, he's 30 yrs old. We've been going out for 4 months now and bf/gf for 2months. A month ago I told him that I love him and he just nod and agree, I told him its ok if he doesnt feel the same way...

A.   27 May 2010: I totally understand how you feel, but try not to push him on this one, it will come in time. Many men get embarrassed and lots find it hard to speak those three little words. When he did, the next day he was probably embarrassed that they had ... (read in full...)

I'd like his parents to know about their soon to be born grandchildren

Q.   Im 6 months pregnant me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for almost 2 years now when i first got pregnant he didnt want the baby at all but he said that he wouldnt leave us.but as the months gone by hes very distance i call he doesnt ...

A.   27 May 2010: Hi there what does your family say about all of this. If I was your Mum babes Id say "leave him". He is treating you badly and you know it, you are worthy of more than this. He says he will stick around just because you are pregnant, I think that ... (read in full...)

My manager brings her baby to the office every week but doesn't allow anyone else to bring in their kids!

Q.   Hi guys, My manager at work had a baby 4 months ago and since it's been born she has bought him (the baby) in to the office practically every week! 1 week she came in 3 times. She came in to show off the baby- not for anything work related. ...

A.   27 May 2010: Im a manager in a contact centre and I am surprised this is allowed to happen, not good customer service when they can hear a screaming baby in the background. Is there no one higher than the supervisor who is the offenders friend. You could say, ... (read in full...)

Should we know each other's password?

Q.   my 5 yrs bf and me were really cool abt facebook. he gave me his facebook password and i gave him mine. i never had any prob with that. but he used to surf my profile and got angry with some guy leaving msg.bhe yelled at me. i initialy used to visit ...

A.   27 May 2010: Why would you want each others passwords dont you trust each other, sounds as though neither of you do, Im a little surprised youve been together so long.... (read in full...)

I'm not happy with my partner, should I leave him?

Q.   I need help I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I've got a 3 year old son with him, and I've just found out I'm pregnant again. I should be happy but I'm not, I don't think i love him anymore. i'm miserable all the time he hasn't done anyt...

A.   27 May 2010: No hun youre not being cruel if you feel so desperate and you sound as though you do, be strong and end the relationship, as you said yourself you child needs a happy atmosphere, and children easily pick up on your feelings. You owe it to yourself ... (read in full...)

How long will my thrush tablet take to get our sex life back to normal?

Q.   [Mod Note: OP's original title] Hey everyone, im going to try make it real quick, and would appreciate any advice given. About two months ago i got thrush as a result of being run down and stressed, the first symptom i had was really painful i...

A.   27 May 2010: Thrush tablets normally take about 2 weeks to work depending on the severity and both you and your partner should be taking them otherwise its a vicious circle being passed from one to the other. Make sure you wear cotton panties and never wash ... (read in full...)

Are all Turkish men this jealous? He said he's the only guy I should look at. Should I talk to him?

Q.   I have been in a long distance relationship for around 2 months now with a turkish guy 4 years older. I really like him, but when we talk on the phone and he knows i have been out, he asks if i went out with boys. and when he says love you at the ...

A.   27 May 2010: Hi girls Im having a long distance relationship with a sweet Turkish guy and we speak online all night and everynight and Im going to see him at the end of June. I think with Turkish guys they are very proud, and possessive of their women - dont you ... (read in full...)

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